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eds, and you are the perfect doormat, such relationships sometimes last for decades.Narcissists don't shed the mask so easily you can't recognize theirs true self but it's only a matter of time until they can no longer be nice and kind and as time goes on it gets worse and worse and you start noticing the narcissist's strange and inappropriate behavior. But you always find excuses for this behavior. Sometimes even a narcissist doesn't have to explain themselves because you will do it for them in your head.Narcissists constantly looking for new people whose characteristics they can take over and become a better person. They are thiefs who robs you of what is best and most valuable in you in order to become better, smarter, funnier than you. The narcissist has already taken over your identity and personality and you are left empty and you don’t even know who you are anymore and you are no longer the same person you were when you met the narcissist. The narcissist will use your words, phrases, unique features in front of other people because now they are already his property, then the good impression will focus on them and now the narcissist is more liked and recognized than before because he has your unique feature.They copied you on a one-to-one scale, he is now a perfect copy, but you are the original, he is only a forgery, a fake that only a specialist can recognize. You are the gold and the narcissist is just tombac and many fell for it and bought something they thought was gold but only found out when they tried to sell it and it was examined by a professional.The narcissist is a sneaky creature and knows how to fool you. They get better and better over time. Don’t blame yourself for being yourself, being real. Narcissist has never been himself and has never been genuine, he doesn’t even know who he really is. He will always pretend to be ssomeonehe is not. Narcissist will always be like a handbag with the logo of an expensive brand, which inside is imperfect and will fall apart quickly. They are a product that is intended for use only for a certain amount of time, which will break down right after the warranty period expires, because that’s how it is coconstructed. The warranty period for a narcissist is the love bombing stage, then the warranty ends and no one wants to accept a return. Relationship with a narcissist is a hall of mirrors. They all distort the picture and you don’t know which one is real. you don’t know if even one reflects the truth or they are all lies.A person as a child acquires the ability to recognize himself in the mirror from the age of eighteen months. In a relationship with a narcissist, most people are like a child under eighteen months who doesn’t recognize that the narcissist is reflecting their image. A narcissist may reflect your whole personality or just the parts of it that they consider necessary to make you l

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ike them. Narcissist will sacrifice and do everything to make you like them in the begging because they know that this investment will pay off for them with interest. Narcissists are an empty vessel that you can pour anything into endlessly and it will always spill because it has a hole.No one and nothing can stop it from leaking. He is like the titanic amazing and the greatest, everyone admires him , but the relationship with them always has the same tragic end. No matter which route you choose, you will always come across an iceberg, meanwhile a fire broke out in the boiler room, sometimes you will even run out of a lifeboat. Evacuate while you can as soon as you feel the impact. Don’t wait until you see the life flares in the sky. Then panic will break out, the water will break in, and it will be much harder to get to the exit.Over time, the mirror usually becomes a black mirror and the narcissist only highlights your flaws and what he knows is important and valuable to you ceases to matter. The narcissist is faking a relationship and love for you. The narcissist wants you to believe that he likes what you like. He will tell you that they will never cheat on you, that they are trustworthy, that they are honest, loyal but in reality it is quite the opposite.The narcissists mirrors you because it will make you like them. They’ll tell you what you want to hear, they'll show you what you want to see, that's how he builds up their self-esteem. The point is that all this is not true because self-esteem is not based on how others perceive you, it is independent of other people's opinions and results from yourself.Narcissist will often imitate the people you like, Theye will change their style of dress to what you like, change their appearance. The narcissist will become what you want them to be. They will never admit it, but he knows that he is imitating you and becoming what you want him to be. They are a pathological liars who envies everyone around them for their best features and individuality because they don’t have one themselves. They don’t know who they are they don’t have a formed identity, so they don’t have the ability to build healthy relationships and they will never be happy.To sum up:Narcissists reflect what they see in you they are your mirror image. You really fall in love with yourself in your best features that they took over and they deceives you with them because they know what you like about yourself and you will feel comfortable with it. He knows that people like you for how unique exceptional and unrepeatable you are .<figure id="ceea"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*aL5oRUW8cStzCPrY"><figcaption>Photo by Fares Hamouche on Unsplash</figcaption></figure>And that’s exactly what a narcissist wants to be</article></body>

A Narcissist’s Favorite Trick to Make You Fall for Them

Narcissists have no identity of their own, they don't know who they are, so they must use the characteristics of others. They are often a mix of many different people, previous partners or people around them.

A narcissist can impersonate another person, taking over their character traits for years until the personality that they have taken over becomes boring to them. They will have a different accent when talking to you, a different accent when talking to someone else, a different tone and timbre of voice. With the snap of fingers, they can change that and be someone else, play a completely different person.

Now let's go back to the beginning...

You meet a new person after some time you find out that you have many common likes and interests, you both like similar movies, music, actors, food you feel more and more comfortable because you think you have found your other half, your soulmate and it is this person which is meant for you.

Narcissists cast a spell on you, they made you like them and the truth is, you actually liked yourself but you don’t know that. You fell in love with a narcissist because they took your best personality traits and became you. Narcissist did it in a way you didn’t even notice because he puts a lot of effort, time and energy into studying you. But once they have gotten to know you inside out and it takes them up to 6 months they already know what the whole relationship will look like. They have everything planned out in their head. After a few months of acquaintance, the narcissist already knows that he played a great role and you swallowed the hook. Narcissists will quickly say that they love you, need you, he will tell you that you are the greatest, they will give you everything and you think you have never met anyone like him before and you are convinced that he is the greatest person you have ever met in your life.

Narcissist want you to love him to get attached to him because then he knows that he has a license to abuse you for a long time. You are inundated with oxydocin, endorphins, dopamine and that’s makes the narcissist already win. Narcissistchose you because he saw something valuable in you that they wants for himself. And because he is in a relationship with you, he willl be able to take it for himself.

Sometimes a narcissist doesn’t just want to take on some of your traits but wants to be all of you.

At the beginning of a relationship, the narcissist genuinely admires you, appreciates the qualities, values and skills that you possess. And he knows that they will be useful to him, that he will be able to use them, that he will be able to use you for his own purposes. A narcissists can hide their true identity for months, years and when you meet what they needs, and you are the perfect doormat, such relationships sometimes last for decades.

Narcissists don't shed the mask so easily you can't recognize theirs true self but it's only a matter of time until they can no longer be nice and kind and as time goes on it gets worse and worse and you start noticing the narcissist's strange and inappropriate behavior. But you always find excuses for this behavior. Sometimes even a narcissist doesn't have to explain themselves because you will do it for them in your head.

Narcissists constantly looking for new people whose characteristics they can take over and become a better person. They are thiefs who robs you of what is best and most valuable in you in order to become better, smarter, funnier than you. The narcissist has already taken over your identity and personality and you are left empty and you don’t even know who you are anymore and you are no longer the same person you were when you met the narcissist. The narcissist will use your words, phrases, unique features in front of other people because now they are already his property, then the good impression will focus on them and now the narcissist is more liked and recognized than before because he has your unique feature.

They copied you on a one-to-one scale, he is now a perfect copy, but you are the original, he is only a forgery, a fake that only a specialist can recognize. You are the gold and the narcissist is just tombac and many fell for it and bought something they thought was gold but only found out when they tried to sell it and it was examined by a professional.

The narcissist is a sneaky creature and knows how to fool you. They get better and better over time. Don’t blame yourself for being yourself, being real. Narcissist has never been himself and has never been genuine, he doesn’t even know who he really is. He will always pretend to be ssomeonehe is not. Narcissist will always be like a handbag with the logo of an expensive brand, which inside is imperfect and will fall apart quickly. They are a product that is intended for use only for a certain amount of time, which will break down right after the warranty period expires, because that’s how it is coconstructed. The warranty period for a narcissist is the love bombing stage, then the warranty ends and no one wants to accept a return. Relationship with a narcissist is a hall of mirrors. They all distort the picture and you don’t know which one is real. you don’t know if even one reflects the truth or they are all lies.

A person as a child acquires the ability to recognize himself in the mirror from the age of eighteen months. In a relationship with a narcissist, most people are like a child under eighteen months who doesn’t recognize that the narcissist is reflecting their image. A narcissist may reflect your whole personality or just the parts of it that they consider necessary to make you like them. Narcissist will sacrifice and do everything to make you like them in the begging because they know that this investment will pay off for them with interest. Narcissists are an empty vessel that you can pour anything into endlessly and it will always spill because it has a hole.

No one and nothing can stop it from leaking. He is like the titanic amazing and the greatest, everyone admires him , but the relationship with them always has the same tragic end. No matter which route you choose, you will always come across an iceberg, meanwhile a fire broke out in the boiler room, sometimes you will even run out of a lifeboat. Evacuate while you can as soon as you feel the impact. Don’t wait until you see the life flares in the sky. Then panic will break out, the water will break in, and it will be much harder to get to the exit.

Over time, the mirror usually becomes a black mirror and the narcissist only highlights your flaws and what he knows is important and valuable to you ceases to matter. The narcissist is faking a relationship and love for you. The narcissist wants you to believe that he likes what you like. He will tell you that they will never cheat on you, that they are trustworthy, that they are honest, loyal but in reality it is quite the opposite.

The narcissists mirrors you because it will make you like them. They’ll tell you what you want to hear, they'll show you what you want to see, that's how he builds up their self-esteem. The point is that all this is not true because self-esteem is not based on how others perceive you, it is independent of other people's opinions and results from yourself.

Narcissist will often imitate the people you like, Theye will change their style of dress to what you like, change their appearance. The narcissist will become what you want them to be. They will never admit it, but he knows that he is imitating you and becoming what you want him to be. They are a pathological liars who envies everyone around them for their best features and individuality because they don’t have one themselves. They don’t know who they are they don’t have a formed identity, so they don’t have the ability to build healthy relationships and they will never be happy.

To sum up:

Narcissists reflect what they see in you they are your mirror image. You really fall in love with yourself in your best features that they took over and they deceives you with them because they know what you like about yourself and you will feel comfortable with it. He knows that people like you for how unique exceptional and unrepeatable you are .

And that’s exactly what a narcissist wants to be