A Love Letter to Mom

Summary

A son reflects on the determination and love of his mother, who overcame six miscarriages and bed rest to give birth to him and his sister, inspiring perseverance and gratitude.

Abstract

The author recounts a personal journey of appreciation for his mother, sparked by a photograph discovered during the COVID-19 lockdown. The image evokes memories of his mother's struggle with six miscarriages over a decade before his birth, exemplifying her unwavering determination to become a parent. He acknowledges the sacrifices she made, including eight months of bed rest for each child, and expresses gratitude for the life lessons she imparted through her resilience. This Mother's Day piece serves as a tribute to his mother's strength and a source of inspiration for others facing challenges, emphasizing that persistence can lead to achieving one's dreams despite adversity.

Opinions

The author views his mother as the epitome of resolve and determination, having faced multiple miscarriages without giving up on her desire to be a mother.
He believes that his mother's example teaches the value of persistence and the possibility of overcoming significant obstacles to achieve one's goals.
The author feels incredibly fortunate and loved, knowing that he was deeply wanted and that his existence is a testament to his mother's perseverance.
He finds his mother's school motto, "One day at a time but always forward," to be a powerful mantra for personal progress and resilience.
The author hopes that by sharing his mother's story, others will be motivated to pursue their dreams regardless of the sacrifices required.
He views the smile on his mother's face in the photograph as a symbol of the joy that can be achieved through determination and enduring life's hardships.

Lessons We Can Apply to Our Life

Photo Credit: My Dad

Confined in the house during the rona crisis, I’ve been trying to think of a gift for my Mom.

I recently discovered this picture of myself with her. It’s one of those classic fading yet clear photos.

Do you see our smiles? I don’t remember taking the picture, but I have a feeling instantly of why my mommy has such a big smile on hers. You see I sometimes tell people I am the seventh child first born and I’ll often get quizzical looks. You see Mom wanted to be a mother. Really badly. She would tell me tales of how she would practice on her nieces and nephews.

In her journey to become a mom, she went through six miscarriages before me. Think about the resolve of a person who goes through something traumatic, picks themselves up, tries again and suffers another setback and then another setback and then another and another and another. This was over a 10 year period! We often see the end result, but don’t see how a person gets there.

"If you’re going through hell, keep going.” — Winston Churchill

Do you think you’re that kind of person? The kind to say it’s gonna happen if it’s the last thing I do? Whatever sacrifice you have to go through — would you do it? She was bed ridden for 8 months to bring me here. And then does it again 2.5 years later to bring my sister here. I sometimes sit in awe when I think about the heaviness of this fact.

I feel extremely blessed to know that the moment I entered this world I was wanted, loved and meant to be here. Her gift to me is that she has shown me what determination can do! It is possible to achieve your dreams if you put the work in!

“One day at a time but always forward” — Mom’s School Motto

This Mother’s Day gift is to thank her and give someone else inspiration to not give up on their dreams and goals. Sometimes you may have to walk through fire to get what you want. Look at that picture again. See the smile on her face? I pray you get to a point where you get that same smile after you get something you’ve always wanted to have. ❤️

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