8 Life Lessons You Learn on the Baseball Field
Getting mad at the umpire is pointless.
Walking up to a baseball field still gives me goosebumps.
I love the game of baseball. The game is fun to play, but it also is a teacher if you will learn. I ingrained these nine lessons in me at a young age because of baseball.
Are you ready? Play ball!
Attitude is contagious
I’ve played on my fair share of winning and losing teams.
The attitudes of the players, coaches, and parents were contagious. If a few people started behaving and speaking negatively, they pulled the rest of us down. But when a few people were always positive and encouraging, it kept our spirits high.
Takeaway: your attitude will affect other people around you. Keep a good attitude.
Master the basics first
I wish I could have jumped straight to 500-foot home runs, but baseball doesn’t work that way.
You are drilled on the basics when you start playing baseball at four or five years old. As you grow, you continue to practice the basics of the game — until you can do them in your sleep. Learning how to hit the ball comes before you learn to hit home runs.
Takeaway: Before you can do great things, you must first master the little things — the basics.
The bench players contribute too
I’ve always hated sitting on the bench.
When the coach would sit me on the bench instead of playing me, I felt like a failure. Sitting on the bench felt like I wasn’t helping the team. But then I learned that the bench players are a great source of encouragement, and they are always needed in a tight spot.
Takeaway: just because you aren’t in the middle of all the action doesn’t mean you aren’t helping the team. Your role matters — no matter how small.
Getting mad at the umpire is pointless
My dad would never let me argue with the umpires if I thought they missed a call.
Even if it really was a bad call — I was never supposed to argue or yell at the umpire. What good would it do anyway? The umpire probably knows it was a bad call, is yelling about it going to help anything — or could it make things worse?
Takeaway: people are going to make mistakes. Rather than get mad at them, control yourself and focus on what you can do to make things better.
Getting scared is part of the game
I was scared to death of getting hit by one kid’s fastball.
He threw harder than anyone else — it was hard even to hit the ball. I forced myself to hang in the batter’s box and hit a groundball. I made an out — but it taught me to hang tough when I felt scared.
Takeaway: sometimes you will feel scared, and there’s nothing you can do about the feeling. Courage is doing what’s right and hanging in there, even when you feel afraid.
Overconfidence will cost a team
Success is incredible — but when it leads to overconfidence, look out!
An overconfident player will always try to do something spectacular when a simple base hit is enough. What often happens is that the player makes a crucial error or mistake that costs the team the game. Acting like ‘no one is better than me” has gotten a lot of ballplayers in trouble.
Takeaway: it’s better to be humble and quietly help your team win than to be arrogant and do something stupid that costs your team a win.
Diving hurts, but sometimes it’s a necessity
I dove trying to catch a few balls before — and they all hurt.
Sometimes a player has to dive to attempt to catch the ball to make an out. Sometimes it works — sometimes it doesn’t, but it hurts regardless. I’ve seen players dive to catch a ball and hit a wall in the process — and their teammates rush to help them up.
Takeaway: be willing to put your personal discomfort behind the mission and what’s truly important. A good team will appreciate and recognize your efforts.
Fans won’t always understand
I think fans yell as much at the players as they do the umpires.
The fans don’t see everything the way the player does. They saw that ground ball get past you — but did they see the rock in the dirt it hit that made it spin away from you? The fan’s perspective isn't the same as the player’s.
Takeaway: don’t play to please the “fans” because “fans” are fickle. They also don’t truly understand what you are facing.
I’m sure I’ll always love baseball — not just because I like playing the game, but also because of the life lessons the game has taught me.
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