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The website content provides an in-depth exploration of what it means to be an empath, detailing the signs and stages of empathetic development, and offering guidance on how to transition from being overwhelmed by external energies to harnessing them in a positive and powerful way.

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The article "Who is an Empath? 7 Signs You Are an Empath" delves into the characteristics and experiences that define an empath, emphasizing their heightened sensitivity to the emotions and energies of others. It outlines seven key signs that may indicate one is an empath, such as absorbing others' feelings, experiencing physical sensitivities, and needing ample alone time to recharge. The piece also discusses the social dynamics empaths face, including being a magnet for people seeking advice or comfort, and the challenges of reading others too easily. Furthermore, it describes the two stages of empathetic development: the disempowered stage, where empaths may feel overwhelmed and adopt negative coping mechanisms, and the empowered stage, where they learn to manage their abilities and influence their environment positively. The article encourages self-love, self-acceptance, and a deep understanding of one's empathic nature as crucial steps towards embracing one's innate power and fulfilling one's purpose as an energy alchemist.

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  • Empaths are seen as having a gift for detecting and processing energies around them, which can be both a blessing and a challenge.
  • The article suggests that empaths are naturally drawn to healing professions and roles where they can positively impact others.
  • It is conveyed that empaths must learn to protect their energy to prevent burnout and maintain their well-being.
  • The author posits that empaths have a unique ability to transmute negative energy into positive energy, likening them to alchemists.
  • There is an emphasis on the importance of self-awareness and personal growth for empaths to move from a place of fear and avoidance to one of power and influence.
  • The article implies that society benefits from the presence of empowered empaths who actively work to improve the collective energy.
  • It is suggested that empaths have a responsibility to understand and develop their abilities to contribute to a more harmonious world.

Who is an Empath? 7 Signs You Are an Empath

Understand who you are and thrive

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Am I an empath? Am I a highly sensitive person, or am I just weird? You woke up today feeling great. Then you picked up your phone. You checked Instagram, Facebook, and your email. Now you don’t feel so good. Chances are you are an empath. You picked up on energy that does not belong to you.

An empath is a person gifted at detecting, reading, picking up, and processing their surrounding energies. Your soul chose to have empathic abilities for a reason.

7 signs you are an Empath

1. You take on emotions, thoughts, and feelings from others around you

As an empath, you are sensitive to the energies around you. You can quickly take on emotions, feelings, and thoughts from your environment without even knowing it.

Were you feeling good until that person came around? Were you feeling ok until that phone call came in? You picked up on energy that doesn't belong to you.

2. Physical sensitivities/Sensitive to suffering/Sensitive to Stimuli

An empath is fine-tuned to detect and process energy. You are sensitive to the suffering of others. You love animals and can’t stand to see them suffer.

When a loved one is sick or injured, you might even feel their ailment like it’s your own. You are sensitive to environmental toxins. Sensitive to loud noises, bright lights, and crowds. You don’t like chaos.

3. You are easily anxious and stressed

The nervous system of an empath is extremely sensitive and open to processing information from the external environment. You can sometimes feel assaulted by other people’s energy, which causes stress.

A non-empath can have lots of stress in their life and not burn out. Not an empath. We can't handle it. An empath is easily hurt.

You sometimes overdramatize situations because you feel so deeply. You can make a situation seem worse than it really is.

4. People are drawn to you

Good people. Bad people. This is because of your open nervous system. Others can detect that, and it’s healing to some.

People come to you for advice. Random people start conversations with you. Babies and animals love you!

5. You can read people

People are transparent to an empath. You see right through people and right through the bs. You can't trick an empath. You can tell the motives of a person.

People know this about you — that they can’t get anything past you. So although people are drawn to you, some are uncomfortable around you, and this can sometimes present a problem socially.

6. You need a lot of alone time

Being an empath can be tiring. After spending a day absorbing and processing energies, you need time alone. This can make you seem aloof or closed off. You need the time alone to clear your mind and recharge.

Although alone time is important, empaths who haven’t come in their power yet use this as a coping mechanism when they haven’t learned how to deal with the energies.

7. Uncomfortable in your body

Most empaths at some point in their life will feel uncomfortable in their bodies. Like it doesn’t belong. Empaths dissociate from their bodies because they associate discomfort with the body. As an Empath, you are often misunderstood — you feel you don't fit in.

A disempowered empath feels awkward in their body and doesn’t like to express themselves through body movements like dancing. They feel embarrassed to move around other people. You will find an empath covering themselves and uncomfortable during intimacy with another person.

The 2 stages in your empathetic development

1. The disempowered stage

This usually occurs early in your life, during childhood, when you start to develop coping mechanisms that turn out to be negative later on.

This is when a child starts feeling powerful energies around them, and because they don't know how to deal with those energies, they run away and isolate themselves.

People can stay in the disempowered stage their entire lives if they don't learn their inner power and develop their own empathic abilities.

This can carry through until the person has had a spiritual awakening or is surrounded by people who know what it is to be empowered.

Here is the core belief of a disempowered empath:

The energy that presents itself before me is stronger than I am.

That's why you run and isolate yourself. That's why you lock yourself up at home and decline social invitations. You are running away because you believe the energy is stronger than you and it scares you.

You believe you don't have a choice in the situation. The disempowered empath is influenced by the energies around them.

2. The Empowered Stage

This occurs later on in life. When a person matures and starts to learn who they are and develop their inner power.

This can also occur earlier in life. Let’s say you are 15 years old reading this, you can jump right to the empowering stage with the information you now have.

Here is the core belief of an empowered empath:

There is no energy stronger than me!

Do you feel the power in that? If you have this core belief, by switching your mindset, it can change your entire life.

An empowered empath knows they have a choice in any situation.

Whether to take in and absorb energy. This is the key to an empath’s power. You can choose to become a living fire. An empowered empath sees the energy is not to their liking — they don't want it — so they become a fire. They burn it and transmute it into something more empowering, like love.

You can also choose to take in beautiful energies that you like from around you. You can choose to be a sponge in absorbing light energy. An empowered empath knows they are an influencer of energy.

You go in a space filled with negative energy; you switch to influencer mode and influence the energy of the space you are in. You immediately overpower the dense energy with your own energy of love, joy, and peace.

This is an important part of your mission — to take gross, dense, negative energy, and transmute it. You are an alchemist.

You are not here to run from negative energy; you are here to transmute it. To make this place a better place. That's your purpose here on earth.

Now how do you become an empowered empath?

Love and accept yourself

This is so important. It is the self-love that shatters all the disempowering beliefs you held before. The more you love and accept yourself, the more you realize how powerful your empathic abilities are.

This is an enormous gift your soul incarnated as. It's one of your talents, in the same way a writer is born to write. The more you love yourself, the more your empathic abilities will develop.

Know thyself

You must know who you are. You can only stay in the disempowered state if you don't know who you are. The moment you know who you are, you are empowered.

There’s a God in you. You are the universe in a body! You are a source of energy and you are so powerful. You must step into the shoes of being powerful.

Once you realize who you are, you lose all the fears. You lose the need to isolate yourself because you can’t stand the energies. You stand taller and stronger because you know there is no energy stronger than you.

Know what an Empath is

Know this on a more technical level. If you've read this far, you know what it is from an empowered place, not from the disempowering beliefs.

The more you know yourself, the more empowered you become. You know you are sensitive, but you are not fragile. Own your superpower, Empath!

What stage are you in? Are you an empowered empath? Comment below, I'd love to hear from you.

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