7 Sexual Bets To Try With Your Partner Tonight
Good sexual bets for better lovemaking.
If you’re looking to spice up your relationship, make an intimate bet with your partner — something that will get you both hot and bothered.
This could be anything from trying a new sexual position to role-playing in the bedroom. The key is to push each other’s boundaries and explore new saucy territory together.
Trust me, this will make your connection even stronger.
So go ahead and place one of these seven bets — I’m sure you’ll both enjoy it immensely.
Why Sexual Bets Matter
Intimacy is a form of communication that can create a deeper connection and build trust.
When we make intimate bets with our partners, we are pledging vulnerability and honesty to them. And to put our trust in them. Vulnerability is the key to intimacy, and through intimate betting, we can create an incredibly strong bond with our partner.
As we all know, trust is essential in any relationship, and it’s built through small moments of openness and honesty.
By making intimate bets with our partners, we are committing to creating lasting trust in our relationship. We are also developing sexual skills to make each of us better lovers.
Skills such as:
- Longevity
- Generosity
- Willingness
- Creativity
The Seven Sexual Bets for Better Love Making
There are so many different types of intimate bets you can make with your partner — it all depends on what you’re both interested in and willing to try.
Here are seven sexual bets to get you started.
1) Who Can Control Themselves Longer Without Finishing?
This is a great way to see who has more stamina.
You can add to the fun by turning it into a competition where the winner gets a prize at the end.
What makes this such a great bet is that each of you will try to do things that make the other person lose. This naturally makes you a very generous person focused on the other person’s pleasure.
It’s also a great way to build your own stamina and longevity in the bedroom while making it a lot of fun.
2) Who Can Make the Other Person Finish First?
A related but slightly different bet is to see who can make the other person orgasm first. Again, this puts a spotlight on the other person’s pleasure.
Unselfish lovemaking is a hallmark of satisfying sex.
You probably know your partner’s body better than anyone. With this bet, it’s time to pull out all the stops.
Another thing I like about this bet is that it celebrates speed. This can reduce any sexual performance anxiety about how long someone lasts.
Instead of orgasming quickly being a bad thing, it’s placed in a positive light.
3) Who Can Come Up With the Most Creative Sexual Positions?
Again, this is about branch branching out and trying something new together — plus, it’s a great way to keep your sex life from getting stale.
I like that this sexual bet highlights creativity rather than longevity or orgasms. Many of us get so caught up in the expected outcomes of sex that sometimes we forget that we’re supposed to enjoy it.
I also love this bet because it can be funny, silly, adventurous, and crazy all wrapped up in one.
Here are a few sexual positions to try (Google them — just not at work):
- Corkscrew
- Pretzel Dip
- G-Whiz
- Magic Mountain
- Ballet Dancer
- Cross-Booty
- Snow Angel
4) Who Can Make the Other Person Orgasm the Most Times?
Orgasming, of course, is a good thing.
This bet doubles down on pleasure. You’re forced to do whatever you can to make your partner finish as many times as possible.
The person who can make their partner orgasm the most wins.
I love this sexual bet because it motivates you to learn new tricks and techniques to please your partner.
5) Who Can Come Up With the Kinkiest Sexual Fantasy?
This one can lead to some fun adventuring.
The kinkier the fantasy, the better. Bonus points to the person willing to go through with the fantasy.
That’s the kicker. It’s not just about coming up with an idea but being willing to follow through.
The combination of willingness and implementation adds another sexy layer to this bet.
6) Who Can Talk the Dirtiest?
Talking dirty in the bedroom can be a blast. But not everyone is adept or comfortable with dirty talk.
During this bet, the only boundary is respect for the other person.
It’s about the power of language. The dirtier, the better.
All of these bets help you improve different skills that you can apply to your sex life with your partner. More than a bet, this is a sexual training ground packed with practice opportunities.
It’s about pushing boundaries, unraveling self-consciousness, and letting loose with your sexual partner.
7) Who Will Say the Safe Word First?
If you really want to live on the sexy edge, this bet will open up so many opportunities. The purpose of this event is to encourage you to expand your sexual limits.
Whoever says the safe word first, loses.
Therefore, this bet motivates you to go further than you ever have gone before with your partner.
In a way, it’s like a much sexier version of “playing chicken.” Instead of driving two cars at each other in the dark, you’re facing off with your lover across the bed.
Final Thoughts
When it comes to intimate bets, there are really no hard and fast rules.
The key is to come up with something that is meaningful and interesting to both of you, something that will add a little spice to your relationship.
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