Essay
7 of My Best Tips on How to Play Yourself
This is also self-love
Many see this as loneliness, I see it as self-love. Knowing how to touch yourself without necessarily needing a partner to satisfy you is something that I consider very precious. This is self-knowledge, it’s knowing your limits, it’s knowing your strengths and weaknesses, it’s knowing what makes you crazy with pleasure or crazy with lust. For this reason, I love being able to get to know my body.
And you know what’s craziest? We will never know our body completely. Like this? Well, because we are constantly changing. In other words, something that is good for us today may not be pleasant tomorrow, and vice versa.
But there’s no point thinking about it too much, these are natural things in life. Therefore, it is always important to know how to “live in the now” and enjoy each small discovery as a great achievement — In other words, never stop rediscovering yourself!
But leaving all that talk aside, what do I actually do when I’m “playing” alone in my room, and what should you also be doing to increase my arousal even without needing the help of a partner? That’s what I’m going to tell you now!
Here are my main tips for you who want to “play” alone or with someone:
- Explore fantasies. From a shy and submissive girl to a vulgar and unscrupulous woman. Work on the role play and see how you identify yourself during the game. Exploring fantasies is also knowing your deepest desires, knowing what you are willing to do to feel good about yourself, and knowing your sexiest and most exciting side.
- Try new toys. Maybe you like the toys that are stored in your closet or under your bed, but try trying different things. Recently, many new and eccentric things have emerged, for example, male dolls for women — Something like this can work well as an improvised “partner” and give you more freedom when it comes to letting yourself play.
- Feel your body. This has nothing to do with feeling your aura, but rather feeling your body through touch. Well, the idea here is that you touch all the places on your body gently, discovering the points that make you most horny, happy, excited, or angry. This is also a very important point for your self-knowledge, it is a way of understanding how your body exists and works.
- Test your senses. Testing your senses also sharpens them to bring you more excitement with less effort. Like this? Well, watch adult films and work on your vision to feel horny as soon as you see something sexual, watch sexual ASMR to make your ears react to any soft sound your partner makes near you, work on light touch to make your body understands what is horny and what is not. It is worth remembering that it is always good to test each sense individually, that is, cover your eyes when working on hearing and cover both eyes and hearing when practicing touch. This is very important to follow.
- Try sexual exercises. As the name suggests, sexual exercises were designed to improve sex, but they are also great for making your body understand the smallest signs of excitement that may come your way. Do them, practice, improve your blood circulation, and experience more real sensations of pleasure.
- Explore your sexuality. Watch adult videos that involve people of the same gender, understand how they do it to satisfy themselves, study their techniques, repeat their movements, and learn to enjoy knowing others as yourself — Explore your sexuality and see yourself in others as you are.
- Play all of this. This is the most important step of all the tips I gave above. Still, knowledge is just a stone in the middle of the mountains, so make it work and try to reproduce it all at home. I think you will definitely feel good about yourself when you understand that “playing” alone is not solitude, but solitude, self-love, and self-knowledge.
Final Thoughts
I think it’s fun that all this madness is always discovering something new that satisfies me. The human body is incredible and we are always learning something different about it, and when we are not the ones who discover something about our body, it is our partners who do it for us.
It’s truly crazy. We are like works of art that are still being painted, that is, we cannot be complete without first knowing who we truly are and what we are like.
Thanks for reading. Have a great day!
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