7 Modern Reasons He Stopped Talking to You
3rd Edition of “Why He Stopped Talking To You”
I want you to know that I have grown over the years since the first two articles. I have learned so much about how much I do not know anything.
One thing I do know is that I will probably never be good enough for anyone. However, I do not think that is necessarily the “End of the World.”
I believe that true love, no matter how corny it sounds, is blind. Being the youngest son and only boy, I looked up to my older sisters.
As I grew into my teenage years, I noticed that them having boyfriends started to become difficult. But not in the way that you are probably thinking.
Their boyfriends would eventually become friends of mine. This experience was confusing since I never had any older brothers to learn from. After a breakup, I would judge the character of their ex.
If they stopped talking to me, I knew that they did not care. They only tolerated me because they had to. The only reason I believe any of their boyfriends stayed friends with me was because of drugs.
The only wisdom I gain from any of these articles is the root answer as to why men stop talking to anyone. No matter what reason I give you, the meta reason is that he no longer has to tolerate you or anyone associated.
As I lay out the new 7 Reasons Why He Stopped Talking To You, I thought it was important to warn you that some of these reasons may be triggering.
In the twinkling of an eye, people disappear from our lives. We have to live with this unaccepted reality. The fear of opening up to anyone ever again haunts you. Slight abandonment issues become triggered.
What hurts most is how conditional most of our relationships are. Our relationships are so predicated and superficial. It goes against our intrinsic nature as social beings.
He stopped talking to you because
#1 You stink (down there and elsewhere)
If we are hooking up toward the end of the night, I can probably let that slide. I understand you have been out all day.
But if it becomes repetitive, this is an issue you have not picked up on.
I do not want to be the one to tell you because that is mean.
However, it has never been a problem. A little bit of smell is understood. That is just the name of the game. I had a quicky one-time backyard during a party.
We had a lot in common. We were both drunk out of our minds. We were both too young to be consuming alcohol. We lacked self-awareness and were both horny. Lastly, we both had intentions or ulterior motives.
As soon as she turned around to bend over, it smelled straight-up ass-pizza. I thought, what the hell? Should this continue?
I do not know when is the next time I will get laid. It is settled, going in.
Three minutes later, I finished up and rushed to the bathroom.
I take a shower because I smell like pussy. I had to throw my underwear away that day. I went commando the rest of the night.
I never talked to her again.
I changed my number and completely disappeared from that set of friends. Long story short, please use Vagisil. It will save your relationship.
I admit that I have been a shitty person before. I remember this girl I was dating in the 7th grade. Do you know how they say that scent correlates with memory?
There was the girl at school I was absolutely in cahoots for; honestly, I do not know why. She was not even nearly as pretty as most girls I dated after. Weird how that works out.
I remember being so shy to even talk to her at school. I was still innocent at the time. Until we ditched school and spent the day at a friend’s house.
We made out under the sheets. It did not last long as she needed some Degree; of the 48-hour clinically recommended protection. No Dollar Tree deodorant stands a chance. We need that “good good” because she smelled “bad bad.”
That wouldn’t be necessary though because I broke up with her that very same day. I don’t remember ever seeing her again, even at school.
#2 You are dumb and it’s not attractive
There was once a man in some weird dimension where animals could talk. The man was walking across the road when he spotted a snake. The snake said to the man,
“Hey, I need help, please take me with you.”
The man said,
“I don’t know… alright.”
So the man took pity on the snake for about two months. The snake slowly but surely healed. Every day the man would take the snake out of its terrarium to play around.
One day the man took out the snake but when he reached in, the snake bit him. The snake injected its venom; so powerful that the man began to die. And right before He took his last breath, the man asked the snake,
“Why did you do this to me? After everything,
I have done for you? I saved your life!
I gave you another chance!
I could have left you on the road!
Why did you do this?”
And the snake said,
“You knew exactly what I was when you found me.”
The man dies. A week later, the snake dies.
A lot of you girls are in love with someone who does not care about you. This guy has hurt you plenty of times. He has used you for resources, sex, and attention. He lies to your face. He manipulates your reality.
Why are you still with this guy? There are plenty of guys you reject because you aren’t as sexually stimulated by them, but these nice guys are probably your best way out of the rat race.
So why do you waste your time chasing someone that would never treat you as the queen? Simple, you’re dumb. You know he is a snake, and that he is poisonous. Yet, you ignore these dangers because you believe that somehow the unknown benefits will outweigh the obvious negatives.
One nuance men are realizing today is that women don’t like nice guys because they’re boring. Women always bring up an experience with their psychotic ex-boyfriend. The funny thing is that women love toxic men.
Women are driven by drama and emotions. You miss when your psychotic ex would choke you while you two were having angry sex. It’s no secret why women love watching soap operas and true crime.
Did you fully grasp the last two sentences from the story about the snake? You know when someone is a snake. The worst part is the snake would hurt you even if you were the only thing keeping them alive. It’s a sad story but that’s why he stopped talking to you. Either because he’s a snake or because he had to go cool his dick and bawl down and forgot you existed.
#3 You’re LDR-ing and he’s tired of it
I cannot see how a long distant monogamous relationship would work. Maybe I’m needy, but I’ll tell you a secret.
Cuddling, hearing you tell me you love me, staying in and watching movies, I love that shit. I’d call you and tell you to look at the sky so you could see your name next to I ❤ YOU in the clouds.
But I will never show you that side of me. I can’t become vulnerable because once I reveal that I’m a romantic, you’ll be on some other dude’s smegma.
This is honest stuff that guys talk about only to other guys. We like when you give us attention and validate us. We play around like we’re not flattered.
Blame society. It influenced the modern woman to fancy a particular behavior and to quickly dispel any presence of weakness.
Men are made to conquer, not be conquered. That is why she is our queen. She does as she wants on the chessboard.
But your majesty only moves one square at a time. Please protect thee.
The reason why I’m not explaining much about long-distance relationships is that I know you’re not a teenager.
I’m sure you know all the keywords like, “pressure, feeling lonely, missing you, getting hit on, kissing somebody, can’t wait to see you, and all that junk.”
Bitch, it’s 2022, hop on a Spirit Airline and fuck my brains out on the weekend or someone else will.
Why must we keep believing it’s 1950, I’m fighting a war and writing you a letter at the same damn time. It’s just not true. It’s almost effortless if you want to see someone you truly love.
If you don’t have time for me then what are we even together for?
What benefit does a man have by having a woman whom he calls his girlfriend living somewhere not easily accessible to him?
There is no benefit.
Unless she’s an astronaut in space or an undercover spy living in Russia; she is more than welcome to enjoy being a bottom-bitch.
#4 I Aint Saying She A Gold Digger But…
I’m saying it anyway. I think you are full of it. I’m not a know-it-all. I’m 5'4, 30, unemployed, half-sane, and living off an inheritance. What could you possibly be attracted to? Do you like the way I see the world?
Did I mention I was Filipino? Ohh, I must be a drunk and violent partner. That statement isn’t even half true. I’m a little drunk, hella violent, and I got the sex drive of a nymphomaniac. Do you want a piece of this mania?
I know that I don’t explain my income to you transparently. But that’s to keep you safe. You’re a princess, you don’t have to worry about what the prince has to do.
It’s all on me like I jizzed myself. I’m the kind of guy that wants to drip you in Versace. The kind of guy that you thought was so sweet you overlooked him. I know I got that kind of paper that will change your life and make it greater but that’s an awful lot of gold-digging.
Love doesn’t cost a dime, but for you, I spend a dozen. The type of guy that’ll dish out sex that’s so trash but here you go full blast talking about how many times I made you cum. Do you like the man I’ve become?
I’m only one call away but don’t get offended if I never pick up. I might accidentally call you one night, tell you I love you, then hang up.
It’s just too bad I caught your vibe too fast. You should have known already that you can’t play a player. That’s like trying to lie to a pathological liar.
Would you still want me if I told you to eat a dick like Jeffrey Dahmer?
Maybe we could Netflix and kill?
#5 He’s Broke and/or Just Lost His Job
Don’t get it twisted. I use to do cocaine with this girl named Alexis. In her words, “Broke dick is good dick.” She changed my life forever, I’ll tell you that. I miss her.
But that’s another reason why he might have stopped talking to you. Only a few men can manipulate their way into giving you a “good-broke-back-dick.”
The majority of men fall into depression. This depression is a test of his mindset. Adversity keeps weak men weak and strong men strong.
It’s hard being a guy today. Men don’t have a plan b.
We’re conditioned to execute the plan, and don’t come back if we fail.
I know, right? Men are so easily replaceable. I wish I was kidding. 2022 was the year that clearly defined the dominant sex.
Since the future is feminine; I desire the divine. Alexis had a friend name, Chelsey. We all knew each other though from church. I remember when I started dating Chelsey.
The same day I got fired, Chelsey asked me if I could help her pay off her credit card. I told her to suck my dick. She was game, but what do I look like? Some people have no empathy for anyone but themselves. It’s disgusting.
I was fucking both of them. I loved them both but Alexis had a boyfriend. Chelsey was a gold digger. I had to stop going to church because I couldn’t decide who I was going to sit with.
Alexis didn’t love me. She only wanted someone to do drugs with.
Chelsea didn’t love me. She only needed help fixing her credit.
I loved them both. It will always be a mystery with those two.
We had good times though.
#6 You Don’t Want Kids
Men primarily look for women that are of legal age up to 25. I won’t spend too much time on this reason because I don’t want to sound redundant.
It’s just important that the fact is stated. Instead, I’ll use this time to speak directly to any single woman that is 26 and up.
Hi, how’s life going for you? Do you have the career you always wanted? Did your 10-year-plan come in to fruition?
Are you loving the feeling of being independent? Are you hiding the fact that you feel so lonely?
You got so much money in the bank, but none of it makes you happy. You try to go to therapy and believe that helps you get through the week.
You spend so much money on a gym membership to Equinox but you never even go. When you do go, it’s only for the finer things, forget working out.
Guys hit on you all the time and you immediately accuse them of being a creep. Your boss is passively harassing you but you can’t tell on him because who’s the boss?
Where will you get the pay and benefits you have now? So you settle because it’s better to have financial security despite your boss being such a dick.
When you hit age 30, you could barely look at social media. All your girlfriends are getting married, pregnant, and divorced. In that exact order. When was the last time you slept with someone you loved?
Your pile of mail keeps growing. Sallie Mae has had it with you. The constant invitations to baby showers, funerals, and kid’s birthday parties have you feeling a little jaded.
Why did you choose your career over building a family? And maybe you’re of the rare few who just happened to be between a rock and hard place.
Have you noticed how hard it is to find someone to love as you get older? On God in heaven, I pray none of this rhetoric applies to you. If you’re not actively trying to start a family, what is wrong with you?
Eventually, these condoms are going to have to come off. We might finally have to stop playing sex for fun and start having sex for what sex is primarily for. The younger you are, the easier it will be.
Don’t waste your youth. Go out there and be fruitful. Find a man who you can trust, someone you don’t lust after. Sure, he might not be Casanova, but the party is over.
If you’re 28, you’ve been acting like a 21-year-old for seven years. Go get pregnant. It’s not about you, it’s about fulfilling yourself completely as a woman. Giving birth is the closest you’ll get to the feet of God. And you want to be the Divine Feminine? There ain’t no shortcuts baby.
#7 Different political and/or religious beliefs
I know these seven reasons are nothing like the first and second. Those were more superficial, and it was a superficial time when I wrote those articles. Today is so much different. A lot has changed, and we got robbed for two years.
I think that’s something we should accept from each other. A lot of us have life on pause because we were forced to. Even if we were defiant, it’s not like the club was going to open up for us.
We got robbed two years of our lives, and though we’ve aged, we never really grew up. I think it’s important that we have sympathy for each other.
Maybe it’s time we start interacting with the world around us. I shouldn’t be called a creep for trying to say hi to you. Little do you know, you’re the first person I’ve seen in 6 months. I was just happy to see someone.
Not only were we robbed for two years, but we were brainwashed. We had our eyes on the news wondering how many people have died, how much longer we have to wait, and where the fuck are all the N95 masks?
Those years we were robbed were probably the most political and religious we’ve ever been. If you were left-leaning, you’re full-blown left now. If you were on the fence, you’re probably a conservative — Californian. If you are right-leaning, it’s understandable that you’re not open to sharing your new ideology. Your old friends on the left are a little on the spectrum.
He might have stopped talking to you if you believe there are more than two genders. I had to say it. I apologize if you’re hurt, please don’t shoot the messenger. If you use They/Them, he likely wasn’t feeling you anymore.
Most of these men you’re chasing after still haven’t accepted the new “normal.” I’m not talking about social distance and masks. I’m talking about the elephant in the little girl’s room deciding if their pussy dick needs an adjustment.
He stopped talking to you because he does not support the fact that former men are dominating women’s sports. Sports were the safe zone and now it’s no longer safe. Transformers have been breaking women’s records lately.
Please don’t be offended — Let’s just be honest. Not all females are okay with this but they have to lie and pledge allegiance to feminism. But isn’t that a danger to feminism? I remember females wanted equality, but not like this.
And I’m going to end it here because I don’t even want to open up about the fact that we’re talking about “minor-attracted person rights” when LGBT won’t even accept “incest person rights.”
We’re morally fucked up. That’s why he stopped talking to you.
- You’re abusive
- You’re indecisive
- You always want to argue
- You need to grow up
- I would never want you to be my baby’s mother