7 Kinds of Dates Women Want
If you go on dates plenty, you’re sure to have one.
Dating isn’t anything like a job interview.
Some of them sure feel that way. But the employee and the employers have a shared target — filling a role.
Every woman who accepts a date invite has different goals for the shared experience. Here are seven reasons women choose to date a man.
The Risk
You can never be sure if she wants you. Or if you got saved as the “food guy” on her phone. It’s a small possibility. But your chances aren’t zero.
A 2019 survey revealed that 23 to 33% of women said they went on dates for a free meal. It’s like going to work because you have bills to pay.
Who knows? The percentage is likely higher given the cost of living. Plus, most fast-food joints are ending low-priced food promotions.
If you’re this guy, all your couple time will revolve around food. And when it isn’t, she suggests a place or makes you order takeout. Some women even ask to bring friends and have you pay. If you decline, she’ll be (conveniently) busy or upset.
The One for Use
These dates are a different type of expensive. It’s an emotional expense because the woman has a man but needs attention. Her man isn’t the type to address her feelings. So, you think you’re stepping out of the friend’s zone.
Instead, you help her fill the need to feel heard and enjoy companionship. Every time you make a move, she will shoot you down. The awkwardness kills the vibe, causing her to leave before you expected.
Men often keep these interactions going for a while. As the woman gives the impression; that she’s unhappy in her relationship. A breakup seems like it is on the cards. If it happens, you’re in for a long wait.
The Upside that’s also a Downside
I’d assume it’s rare. Science says most women aren’t built this way because of oxytocin. Sometimes, you’ll find a woman who only wants you for sex. This discovery is a blessing, depending on your dating mindset. Plus, the quality of the sex. You might grow to like her.
Like men, women can have one-track minds. With every playdate, you like her more. It’s not as easy to hide love as you think because feelings change the quality of sex. A woman who suspects you care too much and isn’t ready for such a relationship will stop seeing you.
The Push
If life were like movies, you’d marry this woman by year-end.
Women want to ease the pressure from their moms and their happily-in-love friend group. They’ll agree to a date to have a story as proof “dating isn’t great.”. So, they can go back to their happy single lives.
The woman has one mission: watch you fail. She won’t ruin the date on purpose. But the lady won’t help you out if you get into a tough spot with the conversation. And sometimes, she is judgy and accusatory. Her mindset going into the experience is likely negative. It won’t take much for her to assume the worst of you and your behavior. You may spend most of the time defending yourself.
The Happy
Of course, women go on dates to find the love of their lives.
This experience is the opposite of the push. The female hopes the interaction goes well and aims to have a good time. Different women have different beliefs, but most will be open to the idea of splitting the bill.
The same applies to any action following the date. The woman’s choice depends on how she feels and other internal conversations. Two primary types of women are in this category. The one who wants to see where time spent together goes. The other will become blunt and ask about your desire for a wife and kids.
The Cloud
This woman wants all the smoke from your reputation.
You either have the means to lavish her with gifts, or your fame adds to her societal status. This lady friend has a distinct taste in men or a set expectation of what you should offer her. But make no mistake, she wants the best dating offers.
These dates involve photo-taking on her part. She’ll want keepsakes of the experiences you afforded her. If you say no pictures, she’s likely to sneak a few after you’re asleep. Or prefer public dates, hoping to get seen together by the paparazzi.
The Chills
Every woman has a different reason for wanting such a date.
- Her Pinterest boards.
- The impression she wants to give you.
- Specific diet.
- Tired of the fuss of eating out.
- It feels right because you’ve been dating for a while.
- Ready to get intimate.
Some women prefer relaxed interactions. It can mean a meal at home. It can even get cozier with a “takeout and movie while in sweats” set-up. She feels safe with you enough to share your or her home. For clarity on how comfortable she is with you, ask.
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