6 Proven Tactics to Win A Woman With Text Messages

It is rocket science for many men but for some men, it is pretty easy and comfortable to keep engaging a woman with them for hours through text messages. They never let her get bored and understand the art of texting. It is important to understand what makes her feel attracted to you while you engage her in texting.

I will try to level up your confidence and make you understand and master things to do when texting her. I will mention some do’s and some don’t do’s, both mixed worked very well and could train your thoughts enough to start doing good or best in texting.

1. Always ask open-ended questions. The first mistake most men make is when they ask boring and close-ended questions that pull her out of the conversation.

You might not be the only person talking to her, nor your questions imagine this, you are a random guy. Text her and say hey, how is it going? She will respond with words like everything’s good and the conversation will end. But if you ask her open-ended or even thought-provoking questions, she will not only respond to them in detail but also think of you differently.

You can ask questions like what are your plans for the weekend? Or did you watch that recent movie?

Asking this kind of question will make her respond actively and you can even give her hints for a weekend dinner or watching a movie together. You see, that’s how you keep your conversations exciting and win her over in just a minute or two.

Remember, When asking her open-ended questions instead of generic ones, ask her something relevant to her in some way. This will subconsciously attract her towards you.

2. Ask her something personal. Women love to talk about themselves and when you ask her something personal, she will love to respond to that.

When you ask her something personal, it shows that you are not going for the small talk or nonsense chitchat. Instead, you are interested to know her on a deeper level. Knowing her on a deeper level will create a bond that will affect her on an emotional level. She will share her thoughts, feelings, and even personal experiences with you, all while texting messages.

Remember, when you ask her something personal, you will make her feel special about herself, knowing that you are genuinely interested in her life and want to know her more intimately. 3. Flirt with her. Using flirting strategically in the conversation is the best way to win her over. Text messaging with flirting, you will create a chemistry that will eventually create a sexual tension so strong that she won’t be able to resist. When you sprinkle flirting throughout the conversation, you add an element of excitement to the conversation. After that, she will try to anticipate your flirtatious behavior through text and keep her talking to you for longer but do not misunderstand when I mention this. Some men use sexual content and name it flirt.

4. Don't be Nonsense. Women are well aware of simps and real men. They know when you are healthy flirting with her and when you are being a simp. Also, when you are flirting, do it in a complimentary way so that she feels appreciated and not just a subject of some sexual discussion. Understand this, healthy flirting goes a long way if used correctly and precisely.

5. Use strong hooks. This technique comes in handy when you are out of topics. You will face a lot of situations where you will feel out of words and don’t know what to say or talk about but you want to. That is where I can educate you on the type of hooks that will make her respond to within seconds. But first, understand this. Hooks are meant to grab her attention within two to 3 seconds as she reads your message. So you must use strong ones to achieve that. It can be anything from asking thought-provoking questions to arousing her curiosity. You must deliver them with perfection. Before I give you those hooks, remember, do not use any generic or cliched opening lines.

Instead, use your hook that aligns with her interests, habits, life events, or even her personality. This way she will understand that these hooks are genuine, not fake, and are tailored to get an opportunity to talk to her. Now here are some hooks you can use. The provokers can be something like I’ve read recently that music can reveal much about human personalities. So tell me, what’s your favorite song?

Or it can be a shared experience. You can say like, I couldn’t help but remember that amazing time or event we had together. Or it can be something fun like I just witnessed something very crazy today. Can you believe that? It can be anything but genuine and she will actively participate in the conversation.

6. Challenge her through debatable conversation. One of the proven tactics to keep her entertained and engaged is having healthy debates. And through those debates, you challenge her. This challenge can be anything.

It can be a dinner treat or a dare when you both see each other. The main point here is to spice the conversation up and add those tiny details that she never gets from any other man. Many men don’t know this and that is why they lose her in conversation even before starting it.

Remember, if used wrong, this tactic can mess things up for you. That is why you must be careful in choosing a topic that doesn’t hurt her feelings or beliefs or is too personal.

These points could help you in boosting up your texting skills, especially with women. Thank you for reading. Share your thoughts in the comments and highlight the statements that mean to you.