avatarLusine Arshakyan

Summary

The author shares personal insights and cultural observations from over three years of living in Italy, emphasizing the importance of a relaxed lifestyle, the nuances of Italian communication, and the central role of pasta in Italian cuisine.

Abstract

The article "5 Things I’ve Learned Living In Italy" by an author married to an Italian provides a glimpse into the Italian way of life. It highlights the laid-back approach to time and the value of relaxation, as exemplified by the Italian practice of enjoying leisurely moments at local bars. The piece also touches on the unique communication style of Italians, notably their expressive hand gestures, which are rich in meaning and internationally recognized. The author discusses the ubiquity and variety of pasta in Italian cuisine, noting the unwavering adherence to traditional recipes. Additionally, the article informs readers about the Italian custom of taking a holiday in August, which can affect travel plans. The author expresses a deep appreciation for Italy's diverse regional cultures and art treasures, and invites readers to subscribe for more insights into Italian life.

Opinions

  • The author appreciates the Italian philosophy of taking life at a slower pace, as captured by the saying "To pay and to die, there is always a time," suggesting a contrast with the fast-paced, productivity-driven lifestyle common in other parts of the world.
  • There is an emphasis on the importance of relaxation and enjoying the moment, as seen in the Italian tradition of socializing at bars after work with an aperitivo.
  • The author acknowledges the global fame of Italian hand gestures, noting their specific meanings and the existence of resources to learn this non-verbal language.
  • Pasta is highlighted as a staple of Italian cuisine, with the author noting its daily consumption and the vast array of recipes, while also stressing the importance of following traditional recipes without alteration.
  • The author points out the unique August holiday tradition in Italy, which sees many businesses closing, suggesting that tourists should be aware of this when planning visits.
  • The author expresses a personal love for living in Italy and a desire to continue sharing experiences and insights with readers, inviting them to follow and engage with their work.

5 Things I’ve Learned Living In Italy

Bella Italia, la dolce vita

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For more than three years now, I’ve lived in Italy, the country that is a magnet for tourists from all around the world. Italy is a pearl of the world, the land of contrasts and harmony.

Each region of Italy is a small country itself, with its own culture, art, food, and habits; you can never be tired of exploring Italy. Did you know that about 60 percent of the world’s designated art treasures reside in Italy and this is without all of the Italian sculptures and paintings presented in the museums around the globe?

Being married to an Italian I learn a lot about Italy, its people, and culture, and it’s time to share my experience with you.

  1. Be Happy and Calm down, we have time. In a busy world, where everyone hurries to get things done, to make more money, work even harder and run 1km more, there is an oasis of calm people quietly enjoying life. In Italy, they say ‘To pay and to die, there is always a time’ (‘A pagare e a morire si è sempre in tempo’); ancient wisdom, that gives the right to postpone any unwelcome action. In other words, there is always tomorrow, enjoy today and let things be done tomorrow… or the day after.
  2. Relax and feel the moment. In small towns, every typical Italian bar has a bunch of chairs right outside, in the summer men and women sit and watch the street with a glass of a cold beer or a shot of espresso. Typically, they read newspapers, watch others and chat about the news.

After 5 o’clock, when the youth finishes work, all the bars in Italy are full of young people having aperitivo and chatting. While passing near the bar one may think there is a big fest, whereas nothing special goes on but Italians relaxing after work.

Photo by the author

3. Hand Gesture. I bet Italians are famous all over the world for speaking with hands. Well, yes they are but they do not just wave their hands around at random, every gesture has a special meaning. From south to north gesture language is widely used to communicate. As the gestures are famous among tourists there are books, articles, and videos teaching the Italian gesture language.

4. Eating Pasta. I used to eat pasta once in a blue moon, so I was never a pasta fan. Here, I had to learn to eat pasta every day as Italians eat a lot of pasta. And when I say a lot, I mean it; try eating pasta for lunch and dinner on the same day. I can’t complain, as pasta is really delicious in Italy. They have a vast number of recipes each more delicious than the other, so one would never get tired of testing all types of pasta.

There is one axiom to follow though, traditional Italian recipes can’t be changed while cooking. In Italy, everyone cooks like a professional, moreover, the average Italian man cooks better than in some world-famous restaurants.

Pasta made by my husband

5. Italy is closed in August. Nope, this is not a joke; Italians have a holiday in August. During that month, usually, towns are empty, the bars are closed, and only highly essential shops are open. Keep in mind, in case you want to travel off the beaten path in Italy.

I love living in Italy, and I enjoy sharing my experience. Thank you for reading hope you enjoyed it. More to come soon; please subscribe to get emails.

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