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ain herself. </b>Women expect you to not only be a mind reader but an interpreter as well.</li><li><b>She can compare me to her dad, but to compare her to my mom would be suicide. </b>It is one thing to criticize a woman’s behaviour but to compare it to another woman, as in to say why can’t you be like her, run!</li><li><b>It is good that God gave the pain of childbirth to her because we wouldn’t have any kids if I had to go through it. </b>Men may be stronger, but women can bear pain better. It is just a fact.</li></ol><p id="b4eb">I’m learning all the time. When I think I’ve got her figured out, I don’t. But I wouldn’t change a thing. It keeps things interesting.</p><div id="e4de" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/im-married-to-a-housewife-e269f14c0777"> <div> <div> <h2>I’m Married To A Housewife</h2> <div><h3>And I’ll shout it from the hilltops</h3></div>

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5 things I Learned About Women Through My Wife

And why I’ll never figure them out

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  1. One day I’m the sexiest man alive and the next I’m a big ape who just wants her for her body. A woman’s perception of you can change from day to day even if you haven’t changed a thing.
  2. If I knew her I would know what she was thinking. If you know a woman long enough, she shouldn’t have to tell you what to do or what’s expected of you. It’s been 26 years after all.
  3. Along those same lines, I should know what she means. She shouldn’t have to explain herself. Women expect you to not only be a mind reader but an interpreter as well.
  4. She can compare me to her dad, but to compare her to my mom would be suicide. It is one thing to criticize a woman’s behaviour but to compare it to another woman, as in to say why can’t you be like her, run!
  5. It is good that God gave the pain of childbirth to her because we wouldn’t have any kids if I had to go through it. Men may be stronger, but women can bear pain better. It is just a fact.

I’m learning all the time. When I think I’ve got her figured out, I don’t. But I wouldn’t change a thing. It keeps things interesting.

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