5 Reasons Women Live Without Orgasms
Medical and psychological reasons aside, there are many reasons why women do not experience the full pleasure and enjoyment of sexual encounters.
Here are five to consider:
5. Not Knowing Your Body (Lack of Body Awareness)
We all have natural rhythms and nuances specific to us. Knowing what we like, what we don’t like and familiarity with how our body functions, can assist in knowing what it takes to achieve an enjoyable orgasm.
4. Body Shame
The age-old adage that when you look good you feel good and when you feel good you “do” good holds a lot of merit here. Being comfortable in your own skin allows the freedom to share yourself in a way that feeling self-conscious does not. The body is amazing; however, not accepting it or viewing it as problematic can cause shame and hindrances between the sheets as well as in other areas of life.
3. Unable to Verbalize Wants, Needs, and Desires
A lot of women grew up in an era where communicating sexual needs was not something a female should do. For the most part those who did express themselves sexually were demonized as whores and prostitutes.
2. Fear of Intimacy and Loss of Control
We are a generation that hides. We are also a generation that does not want to be completely open in our dealings with one another for fear that someone might get the upper hand and leave us in a compromising situation. We are not as trusting and with good reason so it seems. Here is food for thought: If you are in a sexual relationship or sleeping with someone it should be with a person that you have gotten to know and who also knows you as well.
1. Partner has Little to No Stamina
Some men are not only easily excitable, they also lack the control and discipline to hold back long enough for the woman to experience release. Having an experienced partner and one who knows his reset time frame can greatly enhance the likelihood of a woman experiencing satisfaction — maybe for the first time.
It is true that orgasms enhance intimacy and relaxation, however, not experiencing them does not mean something is wrong with you. Like any thing else, you can learn how to achieve sexual gratification. While experiencing a simultaneous explosive encounter can be fulfilling it is not the end all to intimacy. Take the pressure off. Enjoy being together. Experiment, explore and have fun learning what pleasures the both of you.