5 Myths About Men’s Sexuality
From men’s excuses and women’s naivety have arisen five myths about sexuality that seem to go on forever. People keep saying that men aren’t monogamous or that they’re more interested in sex than women, but how much truth is there in that?
1. Men are not naturally monogamous, but women are.
T DNA studies have established that in most animal species, neither males nor females are sexually monogamous, and humans are no exception. Women have been raised to limit their sexual attraction to one person, but biologically, they are built to have multiple partners, even more than men. They prefer things as simple as possible, and monogamy ensures that. Women, however, have a greater ability to multitask and communicate better, two essential qualities for multi-partner relationships.
2. Men are more interested in sex than women.
Usually women who are disinterested in sex were abused as children, have problems with their image, can’t relate or are not capable of love, but this is not their nature. Women generally focus their erotic needs in romantic stories, but when they escape social judgement or problems they want sex. Men seem more interested in sex because their genitals are not as mysterious as women’s and because they are taught that sex is about their own pleasure.
3. Men have to ejaculate to be satisfied
This is a common idea, but men get pleasure even when they don’t ejaculate. In many cases, not ejaculating allows him to have multiple orgasms, maintain sexual energy and desire, and keep his partner interested. Experts say that once men learn to orgasm without ejaculation, they don’t want to cum every time. Most women don’t ejaculate because they are ashamed or because their partners don’t know how to give them enough pleasure, so they know that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate issues.
4. A man must have an erection to enjoy sex
This is another wrong assumption. Women like foreplay even without intercourse, and foreplay involves more than just the penis and vagina. This sex play does not require an erection, and the idea of arousing a woman is extremely pleasurable for men.
5. The bigger the penis, the better
Compatibility is actually what matters. A big penis and a small vagina are not a happy combination, especially after menopause. The important thing is to know how to use your penis, and that’s what you learn. A smaller organ is easier to handle in the vagina and motivates the owner to experiment as much as possible to satisfy his partner. The problem arises when he thinks he doesn’t have a big enough penis. These thoughts also haunt those who are above average size, but women are not interested in size, but efficiency.