5 Facts You Need To Accept on The Twin Flame Separation Journey

Twin flames are always together and they leave to see it

The separation in the minds of most of us is all about the state of being deprived of something. We are being apart from our home, leaving our lover, leaving our country. But separation is only an assumption defined by the perception of our body in the physical world. If separation means deprivation, why do we continue to think of that person, home, in our minds? Our thoughts change when we realize that this is not called “separation” unless we are energetically disconnected. Because although the things we think are not in our lives, we can feel their presence by thinking about them. We can strongly feel the smell, voice, and presence of the person you broke up with. So what kind of separation is this?

Some separations are temporary, while others are completely disconnected both mentally and physically. Twin flame breakups are included in temporary breakups. Because we can never be separated from someone we are always connected to on the soul plane. We fall apart just to discover ourselves and learn some lessons. Some twin flames have already been born in separate countries. And that doesn’t mean they can’t communicate at all. The sole purpose of separation is to take away your control and value from where you give it. Separation is essential in the journey of a single soul to find itself in two separate bodies.

In this article, we will talk about twin flame separation and some truths we must accept in order to shine our light.

Twin flames are your reflection, not someone else.

Treating our twin as someone else is one of the most common mistakes we make during our journey. We treat our twin flame like someone else because we don’t want to have the same behaviors, and thoughts as them. Since we know that they are mirroring us, we cannot accept that the behaviors that we see from them and that we do not like can happen to us as well. But this is already our main purpose in this journey.

Everything we see and criticize not only in our twin flame but also in someone else is within us. Our twin flame, on the other hand, mirrors all our behaviors that we have not seen in ourselves for years and that we have paid a price for and made mistakes. Every day we don’t accept it will be harder for us to face ourselves. That’s why your twin flame is not someone else and there are various versions of every behavior you see from it. When you are not willing to find and heal them, the physical separation will not end.

Making assumptions on a twin flame journey is a waste of time

When you’re not physically or virtually communicating with someone, assumptions and mind-created stories get in the way. The mind loves to stir up everything you already doubt with its own assumptions. That’s why I always try to think of things that I’m sure are correct. I often fail because I want to know more. Wondering what my twin flame is doing or thinking right now puts me in an endless loop of assumptions. But when I manage to get out of my mind and into my heart, I see that I already know everything.

Making assumptions is just stealing time. And being separated from our twin flame is a test for ourselves and for trusting them. This is where our unconditional love is tested. At this point, we understand why we love our twin flame. We love them just because they exist. Even to love them because they are the same soul as us is to be subject to a condition. We’re not trying to learn something we don’t know on a twin flame journey. Because we are connected to them on the chakras, information flows to us. If we can get out of the stories the mind has written, we will be able to see the truth.

Accepting emotions helps to heal spiritually.

Emotions come big, heavy, and fluctuating on a twin flame journey. It is not clear where or when we will catch any major surge of emotion. That’s why accepting them instead of fighting them always helps us. When my feminine energy was out of balance, I was also insecure about receiving and giving love, so I was afraid of the feelings that came to me from my twin. It was very intense and always gave me the feeling that something was going “wrong”. It was like I was creating everything in my head.

When I looked at my life, I couldn’t see any reason to feel this way. Then I realized that I was channeling his feelings exactly. It took me a long time to accept this because my test on this journey is to struggle with uncertainty. I try to move forward in my journey by relying only on my intuition and the feelings that come to me. This is a very difficult situation for someone like me who always believes in things that are tangible and have proof.

I found that I felt more relaxed when I accepted the feelings that came and let them boil for a few minutes. I couldn’t see what these intense feelings were gifting me as I rejected them and complained that my twin flame “doesn’t exist”. But in fact, I realized that every emotion contains love. And as I accepted the emotions, my feminine energy began to balance. It was a relief to surrender to the emotion.

Ending ego wars

Our ego is a warrior that manifests itself wherever we try to control it. The ego resists love and goes with the flow. One of the main reasons why my feminine energy is low is that I constantly want to give without accepting to “take”. Because only when I give do I feel in control. But when I want something from someone, or let someone love me, my ego pops up and starts making me feel powerless.

The twin flame journey is also a struggle between unconditional love and ego. The ego always wants to spit, shout and leave. When I saw something I didn’t like about my twin, I walked away. And that hurt my soul a lot. In fact, every minute I thought I was breaking away from him, I was weakening my bond with myself. But now I understand these little tricks my ego is making. I am ready not to obey it and to hold tighter the great torch of love I carry in my heart.

When we finish our egoic escapes and connect to the love within us, we realize that what we need is ourselves rather than a person. Why do we want our twin flame? Why do we need their existence? We actually want ourselves and all the parts of ourselves that we cannot reach. If we don’t realize that we already have these pieces and if we don’t start discovering them like treasure, we will not be able to experience a twin flame merger.

Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link