avatarLon Shapiro

Summary

The content suggests that it is important for individuals to communicate and establish ground rules for intimate encounters to ensure mutual satisfaction and to educate partners on being considerate lovers.

Abstract

The author expresses surprise at the lack of communication mentioned in a previous discussion about understanding one's own body, implying that setting boundaries and expectations is crucial for a positive experience. The author believes that most men are eager to please their partners and that by sharing knowledge on how to be attentive and patient, one can contribute to the improvement of their partners' sexual conduct, encouraging them to become more generous, patient, and gentlemanly lovers.

Opinions

  • The author assumes that clear communication and the establishment of ground rules are essential for enjoyable intimate experiences.
  • There is an expectation that individuals, particularly men, are motivated to satisfy their partners sexually.
  • The author views the act of educating partners in intimate matters as a public service that can lead to better sexual conduct.
  • The importance of being a generous, patient, and gentlemanly lover is emphasized, suggesting these qualities are highly valued by the author.

One question: where is the communication? You’ve written previously about knowing your own body so I find it hard to believe that you didn’t just set up a few ground rules to insure that you had a great time. MOST guys want to please their partners, at least in the real world. You would have been doing a public service by educating them to become generous, patient and gentlemanly lovers.

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