4 Ways to Become an Irresistible Woman
“Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hope…..but no plans.” by Peter F. Drucker.
Chapman summarized the five key ways to sustain and experience love. He called this keys “love languages” which are:
- words of affirmation,
- quality time,
- receiving gifts,
- acts of service and
- physical touch.
Also our society, educational systems, families, cultures and religions has made us to believe that for our relationships to work, there has to be;
- Love
- Trust
- Loyalty
- Securing each others interest among others.
- Sex
Love and Desire are two elements that rekindled a relationship. At times you wonder if love and desire are enough to secure the man you love.
I have seen quiet a few relationships were all the listed above were in place . Despite all, the guy still have the gut to cheat.
Here’s what I figured out!
- Your body figures and shape wont secure your man.
- Too much display of love may be pestering
- Too much loyalty may be taken for granted.
The vital way to become an Irresistible woman is to understand your man.
There are differences between understanding men and understanding your man. When you are able to describe the spec, values and priorities of your man, you are sure to make head way.
Dating is a platform to know your strengths and weakness and your likes and dislikes , how your partner faces challenges and so on.
Men’s Love Language:
1. Do not resist:
Do you know that men have some level of pride and a little bit of grandiosity? Although it varies with different men.
By all means, stop the show of masculinity with your man. Make him feel important.
Even if he may be wrong at any moment of decision making, make him feel his decisions are always good but there may be better options.
Some relationships fail is due to lack of respect, love is not enough, you must show to your partner that you take him in high regards that u adore him, he may be wrong sometimes correct him lovingly try not to bruise his ego guys hate that, make him feel like the king that he really is and surely he will reciprocate.
2. Give no room for doubt
A relationship must be build on trust if it’s expected to pull through several trials, being untrustworthy and secretive hinders the relationship in several ways,first ur partner begins to doubt everything you do even when you are being truthful he begins to lose the connection he once had with you.Always come out clean, be transparent. Lying may seem like the easiest way out but trust me it ruins everything at the end.
3. Be supportive
One way to become a better partner is to support your partners dream, know his goals in life and support it, there are little things you do that proves this. Discuss his dream with him,know what he needs at the moment and sometimes all he needs from you is to listen to him, and finally, constantly remind him that you love him.
4. Admit your wrongs
No one is perfect but we all try to work towards perfection.its important to know your weakness and then improve on it cause it actually limits you and slowly destroys your relationship. This is the time to make a change, start by asking him what he believe is your weakness that effects the relationship, then you start working and improving on it, this will definitely make him happy and boost your relationship higher.
Conclusion
Being desperate will only scare him away, keep a positive energy around you and put the above points into action I know you will be glad you did.