The Four Pillars of Successful Relationships, Dreams about Future Partners
This article discusses essential values to base our relationships on and the idea of meeting future people in our dreams or premonition dreams.
With significant relationships, we will always dream about them first before meeting them in person. If we pay attention to our dreams and keep a journal, we will know about someone before they arrive. They could be a romantic, significant friendship or a business partner. So the four pillars of a successful relationship are essential for a lasting partnership.
The first two I wish to discuss are respect and admiration. Significant relationships are intimate and long-term, so we must respect and admire this person. These core beliefs are unshakable regarding our partner, which go deeper than any outer flaws or imperfections. We have to honestly know the essence of this person, their values and beliefs, and how they behave under various circumstances. To do this requires reflection and study, and that we have done a good deal of inner work on ourselves. We have established a core set of principles that we live by to see these in another person.
When working or living together under everyday stress, we never override their opinion or shut them down because we highly respect and value who they are and their perceptions of reality. Disagreements are civil discussions with each allowing the other to voice their opinions while finding common ground. Because this person has our admiration and respect, we will almost certainly create a better solution, having worked it out together.
The final two pillars are trust and loyalty. These two guarantees that our partner will never let us down, and we will always be loyal to them; this is not to say they are perfect and will never make mistakes. Flub-ups, oversight, forgetfulness is part of our everyday world. Some days we are just distracted, not at our best, and performance may be off. These things are not a serious challenge to our core trust and loyalty. We would never be in a serious partnership with someone who was not mindful of their behavior. Therefore trust is always present with our partners because their motives are honest, caring, and self-analyzing. There is no need for feelings of betrayal. These four pillars require mature, thoughtful individuals with core principles that spring from an inner peaceful self-knowing.
Regarding lucid dreams or premonition dreams, I have always met significant relationships in lucid dreams or astral travel before actually meeting them in person.
Even if you are not fully lucid or astral traveling, you can still remember your dreams about them. The difference is, I have been a lucid dreamer or astral traveler since I was seven years old. I am aware of encounters with people and can talk to them, ask questions and discover more information. I had even told these people when I met them in person that I had already had conversations with them in the dream plane more about that here. We are constantly getting guidance in our dreams. Dreams are an essential part of our inner compass in navigating this reality.
With these four principles developed in ourselves, we can attract or magnetize the same kind of person. These principles are very important for our inner circle of relationships because we will always deal with an outer circle of people whose values are in flux or not aligned with our own.