4 Breathing Techniques They Should Teach You in School
Stress rewires your brain when it goes on for long enough. Here’s how to lower anxiety, increase alertness and find inner stillness when you most need it.

Which of these two skills is more important:
Being able to recite all 46 U.S. Presidents in chronological order, or knowing how to control your emotional state?
The first one is a better party trick, but most people would agree that knowing how to regulate your mood, energy, and emotions is way more useful out in the real world.
So here are 4 simple breathing techniques that have made a huge difference in my own life and that can help you lower anxiety, increase alertness and find inner stillness when you most need it.
Box Breathing
If you’re new to breathing techniques, this is a perfect one to start with. U.S. Navy Seal Mark Divine uses this technique to calm the mind and body, deepen concentration, and increase focus.
When should you use this technique? Before stressful situations, such as speaking in public, a job interview, or any other activity that causes you to feel anxious. It’s also useful when you want to boost mindfulness and increase concentration.
I like to use this throughout the day when taking breaks between work or writing to re-center the mind and feel more relaxed.
How it works
- Breathe in through your nose as you count to 4
- Hold the breath for a count of 4
- Exhale all the air out slowly through your mouth for 4 seconds
- Hold the empty breath for 4 seconds
- Repeat as many times as needed.
The 4–7–8 Breathing Method
“Practicing a regular, mindful breathing exercise can be calming and energizing and can even help with stress-related health problems ranging from panic attacks to digestive disorders.” — Andrew Weil, M.D.
Dr. Andrew Weil developed this breathing pattern based on an ancient yogic technique called pranayama, and calls it a “ natural tranquilizer for the nervous system”.
This is my go-to when I need to relax before bed, calm overactive thoughts, and fall asleep faster.
Dr. Weil also recommends using this method whenever you feel tension or stress, especially before you react to an upsetting situation to avoid doing or saying something you might later regret.
How it works
- Exhale completely through your mouth
- Next, close your mouth and inhale silently through your nose as you count to 4
- Hold your breath for 7 seconds
- Exhale from your mouth for 8 seconds as you make a whooshing sound
Practice this pattern for four full cycles.
Watch Dr. Weil demonstrate the technique here:






