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Achieving Your Goals in 30 Days: The Hard Truths You Need to Hear

Create Abundance in Your Relationships and Finances with These Life-Changing Affirmations.

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Intro

Many people want to be rich and wealthy. Money plays an important role in our lives.

It is great to have enough earnings/income to not starve and have basic needs fulfilled. Sometimes it comes with its own price of doing a meaningless job.

On the contrary, it happens that people who pursue their passion, for example, art, do not get enough income for a decent life and keep struggling.

Even if one is getting enough money, and living a decent life, chances are one is not truly happy due to different issues in their relationships or other aspects of life. All these examples have one thing in common. They are all off balance.

Maybe it is how life is. But maybe it is only our perspective of life.

In this article, we will look inside ourselves, and we will try to reach our brain to reset its “default” settings.

In my opinion, it is far more important to be healthy, fulfilled, and live with a purpose and inner balance (while having enough financial means, of course).

I believe that everyone can have all of that. Everyone can be rich financially, spiritually, and mentally at the same time. With enough dedication and effort. Maybe not immediately but definitely.

To make any change in our life, we can only work on ourselves or our inner selves. We need to understand what is our brain telling us. What are the messages it is telling us on the subconscious level?

If these messages are negative, they will manifest in the negative events around us, as well as in a negative financial situation.

To change the perspective of the events in our life, we can start from within — by providing new powerful positive messages. So, with time (probably sooner than we expect) they would manifest in a better financial situation.

I have an opportunity to share my realizations and I hope it can help you.

Short Summary

In short, this article is to remind us that:

  • we are more than enough and adequate to create a difference;
  • it is alright to prosper;
  • whatever happens or does not happen, is for our betterment, for us to evolve;
  • money is the energy in action;
  • it is alright to receive, as well as to give away — it all comes back multiplied;
  • there is nobody to get us, people around are trying to live their own lives;
  • it is safe to forgive others and, more importantly, to forgive ourselves.

Note: If you would like to dive in the affirmations already and start a 30-day course of re-balancing your life, please skip the Introduction part and start A 30-day course below. However, I would like you to read the Intro to have a better idea how I connect money to the other aspects of our lives.

Introduction

The standard perspective of money

People started trading in the Upper Paleolithic Age. In the beginning, it was through different commodities, such as raw materials, weapons, and primary agricultural products. People exchanged and bartered desirable objects without using money.

The money came later. Its form has evolved over the millennia — changing its format from natural items, coins, and paper to digital versions. Despite the format, people used currency as a standard of value. For example, instead of paying the bus driver with a kilo of apples, we would sell apples for N credits and then use them to pay for the ride.

Another perspective of money.

Money might be considered also as energy. The energy in action. Here, I want to share my newly-formed perspective on money.

Our world is a wonderful and magical place to live in. Starting from the odds of the formation of the Solar System. Our Earth is in the right place, near the source of light but not too close. Then, the whole chain of evolution, started a long time before our species Homo sapiens appeared. Not even saying that the chances of each of us being born are one to 400 trillion! To make a long story short — that is a miracle.

Different miracles happened many times in various forms and are happening every single day. Every day is a miracle. Before we move on, I would like you to slow down for a moment and appreciate your life. Because you are a miracle.

Of course, scientists study and explain many issues and have already solved many mysteries. Our modern life would not be possible without scientists, engineers, and inventors — people who dedicate their lives to exploring natural and applied sciences. However, what if there is something bigger? Some kind of energy that made these miracles possible. That can be called Higher Being, God, Higher Energy, the Universe, or something else. The point is to find what makes us at peace with ourselves and others. I will call it “God” to explain my point and a possible way to balance one’s own life.

A bigger picture

We are all connected through God. It has many layers and aspects — mental, physical, and psychological. The financial aspect (i.e., money) is only one part of it. Hence, to restore the financial balance in life, we need to restore the overall balance with our inner selves.

Money does not make us happy. But I would prefer to be happy in my private car more than in public transport. I am not greedy — I just believe that everyone can have all of it. Everyone can be financially and spiritually fulfilled.

How do we start? We will use a set of affirmations.

Why do you need affirmations in the first place?

According to a team of psychology experts at Queen’s University in Canada, on average a human has more than 6,000 thoughts per day. Which is some thoughts scientists could actually detect. In other words, it is only a lower estimate. There is a large number of thoughts in our subconsciousness we are not aware of. Guess what? Most of those thoughts are probably negative. It leads us to sabotage our success and make poor choices.

These changes do not happen overnight but with enough effort and dedication, it is possible to rewrite those negative messages we keep telling ourselves. In principle, that is a life-long process of self-improvement and self-work. Here, I propose you a kick-start. Here, we will talk about affirmations.

Affirmations are short and powerful expressions. The principle it works is very simple — you repeat a given powerful positive expression until it sticks to your brain. Then, your subconsciousness takes place.

A 30-day course

Next, I will write a list of 30 affirmations. Under each message, I will write supportive thoughts and my interpretation of them. You should work on one message a day. Write them 20 times in the morning and 20 times in the evening to concentrate and fix them in your mind. Of course, you are free to change the affirmations as you wish, otherwise, you can follow my examples.

The format is the following:

Day #

Affirmation

Supportive Thoughts and Meaning

Day 1

God is now with me

God is now with you independent of what you think. God is now with you independent of what you feel. Even if you do not feel the presence of God, God is not with you. Everything is safe.

Day 2

My connection with God is more than natural

Your connection with God is strong enough to bring you prosperity. You are part of God’s plan. Everything will work out eventually.

Day 3

I can see God in everyone

You can see God in everyone, even if they do not match your idea or image of God. Everyone is part of God’s plan. When you give others, you give God. When you receive from others, you receive from God.

Day 4

I want my ego to fall, so I can feel divine success more and more

The more you control what works in your life, the more God controls what does not work. You can rely on God when God is leading you. You can choose or make your own path in life and God will always correct it.

Day 5

I do not have to sin to win

You do not have to sin or use dishonest methods to win. You do not have to lose to win, either. Nobody has to lose to win. Everybody can win. There is enough for everyone.

Day 6

Prosperity is divine

You can be rich financially and spiritually at the same time. God wants your prosperity. It is alright to prosper and shine.

Day 7

Every time when I think that I am losing, a much greater victory is waiting for me

You never lose anything that has real value. You always have money that comes to you. Your future is secure and full of wonderful surprises.

Day 8

People give me large amounts of money for my enjoyment and comfort in life

It is alright to simply accept and take all of it. The more you relax and feel pleasure in life, the more work you will accomplish. It is alright to receive. You do not always have to do everything.

Day 9

It is safe to forgive my parents

Some blocks and negative thoughts come from unresolved issues with our parents. If there are any, it is safe to forgive your parents. Parents want you to prosper and shine. You can forgive your parents for wishing you prosperity.

Day 10

People like me for being on top

Honestly, there is nobody to get you. To reach our inner peace it is important to become at peace with people around us. So, let us repeat that people like you for being on top. People like to support you. People like you because you reached that high level. You can be the first and tell “No” to others.

Day 11

I have to make a valuable contribution

You are more than enough and adequate to create a difference. The more you express yourself, the more you serve others.

Day 12

The more I serve, the more I prosper

Your energy is infinite. The more you give away, the more it comes to you multiplied. Money is the energy in action, so the more you give, the more you have.

Day 13

To receive is divine

You are worthy to receive it. The fact that you are receiving freely, brings joy to others. It is alright to receive. Remember, when you receive from others, you receive from God.

Day 14

Now, I forgive myself completely

Now, you can forgive yourself for all of your faults. Release that guilt from inside. What happened, has already happened. We are all human and we make mistakes. Stop blaming yourself. Everybody is forgiving you at this moment. God has already forgiven you.

Day 15

Thanks to God for everything I have

The more you are grateful, the more you have to be grateful. The sense of gratitude opens up our chest and keeps the warmth inside our hearts. It helps us to stay grounded. There is always something you can be grateful for.

Day 16

It is worth being generous

The more generous you are, the more money you make. You are like a money generator. You can always strive to be generous. Remember, when you give to others, you give to God.

Day 17

I am an attractive personality

The more you value yourself, the more others value you, too. You attract the abundance of love and money in your life.

Day 18

I am the money magnet

You attract money, you are a magnet! The bigger you are, the more money you attract. You do not know resistance. Your life is abundant with money.

Day 19

The more I win, the more you win. The more you win, the more I win

The more you give yourself what you want, the more others give themselves what they want. It is far better and more enjoyable to cooperate than to compete.

Day 20

It is enjoyable to prosper

The more you satisfy yourself, the more you satisfy others. Find what you like to do. The more you do what you want, the bigger reward you get. Even in the most enjoyable work, there are frustrating and hard parts. However, if you find something and give it a deep meaning, none of the difficulties will stop you. The reward will come.

Day 21

I can trust my intuition

The more you trust your intuition, the more you get what you want. The more you trust your intuition, the more truth you tell. It is safe, to tell the truth.

Day 22

I am enough. I have enough. I do enough.

You are good enough. You have all of that.

Day 23

I am safe and immortal right now

The way to become immortal is really to leave a contribution to this world and people’s lives. You know that you can make a valuable contribution. Your wish to create is bigger than your wish to destroy. Your wish and thirst for life always support you. You know that you have support, always. You can enjoy your life.

Day 24

I have the energy for success

You have enough energy. You can forgive yourself for any thoughts about being powerless. You might have used your energy in the wrong direction in the past. But it does not mean you cannot start using it right from now on. Your power is good and safe.

Day 25

I have a goal

You have a goal. Your life is not random. There are no coincidences. Only inevitabilities. When you share your life, you express yourself, you express your goals.

Day 26

I am fulfilled

Right now, you are fulfilled. You are healed. You are free to love yourself unconditionally. Now, you are independent of what others think about you. You are fulfilled from the inside.

Day 27

God is incomprehensible. The more I know that I do not know, the closer I am to God.

It is completely alright to doubt sometimes. You do not have to know everything all the time. Nobody can know everything all the time. The most important thing is that you know enough to prosper. Life is the process of learning.

Day 28

Peace is my passion

You better win peace and a safe good relationship than win a quarrel. Do not let a small dispute break a big friendship. You do not have to struggle to live. That is an old idea. The more you choose peace, the more you experience heaven on Earth.

Day 29

I believe in God

The more you are immersed and absorbed in God, the more God is immersed in you. Moreover, God is immersed in you whether you are immersed in God or not. There is no way of avoiding God’s generosity. You cannot avoid God’s blessing. Your life is blessed and everything you have is a blessing and a miracle.

Day 30

The divine plan of my life is manifesting right now

Glory to God. I am free from guilt and fulfilled with joy and wish to live.

Summary

Now, we conclude our 30-day course of rewriting negative and destructive messages with new positive ones. Let us remember that:

  • we are enough and we are worthy to live a good life, to receive, and to be on top.
  • it does not matter if we did something stupid in the past because we can always start redirecting our energy from now on.
  • we should not feel shame or guilt for anything we are doing if that is aligned with our ideas about life.

I would like you to keep in mind that you can choose any of the above-mentioned affirmations depending on what you are feeling is lacking in your life right now. And of course, it is useful to update our current mind settings from time to time because life is a work in progress. It is normal to have ups and downs. The point is to never give up and to keep growing.

Thank you for your attention. I hope you enjoy going through these affirmations as much as I enjoyed writing them. It would be wonderful to hear from you if you notice any positive changes by completing this 30-day course (or at least a part of it).

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