3 Ways to Grab a Man’s Appetite and Make Him More and More Addicted to You
Simple and effective
I believe that everyone will find such a phenomenon in life: in the cake shop, the products you try are always cut into small pieces.
Cosmetics and perfumes of various brands are only given a few trial packs, and even some mobile apps are only accessible for a few days and need to be renewed later.
Why do merchants choose to use this method to guide consumption invariably?
Because they all understand the weakness of human nature, that is: taste the things that are not easy to stop, and they will be more appetizing and attractive to people.
This method also applies to emotions. Today we are going to teach you 3 methods to whet a man’s appetite and make him more and more addicted to you!
01 three one rule
What is the “three one rule”? In short, you reject a guy every three times he asks you out.
Don’t accept every time a boy asks you out or makes a request, you accept it without hesitation, because this will only make the boy feel that you are too controlling, and chasing you is completely unchallenging.
The point to note here is that you should find an objective reason when you refuse, rather than a cold and direct refusal!
Someone once did an experiment in which three dogs were placed in three different cages, and a bell was hung in each cage.
The first dog was fed food every time the bell was ringed, the second dog was not given food every time the bell was ringed, and the third dog was randomly fed food every time the bell was ringed. As a result, of the three dogs, the third dog was more tame and obedient than the first two.
Uncertainty is more challenging and appealing than knowing the outcome every time without a doubt.
So don’t let the man figure out your routine from the beginning, random rejection will make the man more addicted to you.
02 delayed gratification
If you want the other person to be more interested in you and more addicted to you, then you must use the “delayed gratification” strategy.
What is delayed gratification? That is, you must not meet his expectation as he expected at that point.
How to use this trick specifically?
During the ambiguous period, boys sometimes long for physical touch with girls. And want to use this touch to escalate the relationship between the two.
For example, the two of you are dating together today, and the atmosphere is very good. When the two of you eat dessert together, your faces are very close to each other unconsciously.
Just when the boy’s eyes are looking at you for two or three seconds, you should quickly withdraw your head, pulls the distance between the two, and then shows a shy expression.
Or maybe you dated for a day, and you both had a great time together. When he takes you home and wants to kiss you, separate your mouths with your hands.
When the boy reacts and gets a little angry, let go of your hand and take the initiative to kiss him gently. Then quickly ran home, and finally turned around and showed a shy expression, then I’m sure, at this time, the boy will be excited.
In a word, the essence of this method is:
When the other party is expecting something to happen, if it is unexpected and slightly delayed, it will give the other party a deeper impression and a surprise effect.
03 keep space
Remember to give yourself space and distance even if you have feelings for each other.
Girl, you have to know that what men like most are the sense of mystery. If you can make him unpredictable for the rest of your life, then you are the love of his life.
How to retain this sense of mystery, the key lies in space. If you have your little world, your circle, your own hobbies, and your own career, then you will definitely not be a girl who needs the company of boys all the time.
I’ve seen some girls who don’t care about their careers and studies when they fall in love, and even have little contact with their best friends because they are all focused on the person she loves.
But think about it, if a boy who only knows about you all day long, has neither career nor self-motivation, has no hobbies of his own, and has a circle of friends, would you find him attractive?
Using the above three methods, you will be able to fully whet the appetite of boys.
You must know that love can never simply blossom and bear fruit by doing nothing, so you don’t think it’s troublesome or routine.
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