3 Stoic Qualities In A Man That Drive Women Crazy
Stand out from 98% of men by following the stoics’ advice.
What the hell do women want?
There is no exact answer to this question, which is probably asked by almost every man at some point.
However, there are some traits that are very attractive to 90% of women.
Let me explain why.
It’s a well-known fact that opposites attract, and that’s exactly how it is with romantic relationships between men and women.
For attraction to develop, there has to be a certain polarity. Let’s call it the polarity between masculine and feminine energy.
The majority of women, although not all, radiate feminine energy, which can be described as flowing, dynamic, emotional, and creative.
These feminine women are therefore highly attracted to men with masculine energy, which is stable, predictable, logical, direct, and conquering.
Stoics such as Seneca, Marcus Aurelius, and Epictetus also preach these masculine traits.
So if you internalize the following three stoic characteristics, you will enormously increase your chances with women.
I myself have struggled with women for a long time. Today I have a beautiful girlfriend. I think that the following character traits that I have acquired are responsible for this change.
Emotional Control
You shouldn’t give circumstances the power to rouse anger, for they don’t care at all. — Marcus Aurelius
Women are usually quite emotional, which is why they are attracted to an emotionally stable counterpart. If you are her rock, she will love you.
It makes you incredibly sexy when you don’t let a woman’s mood swings infect you. Remember: these are not bad but a natural part of the beautiful female energy you love so much.
Accept them as such and don’t a woman’s mood swings face you. If you don’t, the two of you will end up fighting and she will lose respect.
If you remain unimpressed, she will appreciate it and love you even more.
Outcome Independence
“Man is disturbed not by things, but by the views he takes of them.” — Epictetus
Most women want a man who is stable and does not need a woman by his side. Of course, you can want a woman, but as soon as she realizes that you are needy, it will turn her off.
Because neediness kills attraction. It demonstrates low value. Because men who can have many women are usually not that needy.
Stay cool, don’t be needy, and show that you don’t necessarily need them and you will magically attract them.
You Take Extreme Ownership
“Progress is not achieved by luck or accident, but by working on yourself daily.” Epictetus
Women love a go-getter. A doer who can also take a little risk.
- You know that you and you alone are responsible for your life.
- You take your fate into your own hands and don’t complain about external circumstances, your boss, or your genes.
…and you will skyrocket your attractiveness.
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