3 Reasons Consistency Alone Won’t Carry You to Success
It’s More Than That
If you think success is all about consistency, you are wrong.
That idea is getting tired.
Does it make you feel like a failure when you’ve worked so hard for so long but have nothing to show? You aren’t the only one, trust me.
Imagine yourself sticking to your fitness routine religiously. You’ve sacrificed social gatherings, sleep, and grinding through every obstacle.
It feels like Groundhog Day because you wake up with the same physique every day and aren’t seeing many improvements.
Consistency alone won’t get you to the finish line of success. It could be holding you back from making the improvements you want to see.
Here are three reasons why.
Reason 1: Rigidity is a Trap
Ask any guru or trainer, and they will tell you, “Consistency is key!” Without it, there is no chance you’ll reach your goals.
You must show up daily. No matter what.
They’ll tell you it’s easier for habit-building if you pick the same time daily to do your work. This reinforces the habit loop.
It is undoubtedly helpful for routine building but could come crashing down if you hold on too tight.
Picture this: you’ve started a new workout routine and nutrition plan. You’re knocking it out of the park!
You’ve found a time that’s easy for you to get to the gym every day after work. You meal prep on Sunday afternoon to lock in your weekly nutrition.
You haven’t missed a day yet. You finally have it all figured out and are fired up about it.
Then life does what it does: and you have some last-minute after-work meetings or, worse, a family emergency pop up.
A Sunday activity with your family may make you miss a week of meal prepping.
You miss one workout, then two, then three. Because you didn’t meal prep, you’re flying by the seat of your pants and back to making bad nutritional choices.
Next thing you know, you are back to square one. All that progress is down the drain.
Consistency is essential, but you also need adaptability. You will hit speed bumps and get some curveballs. It’s inevitable.
It’s like driving a car stuck in mud. You keep pumping the gas, and the wheels spin, but the car isn’t going anywhere.
With the ability to be flexible, you could stay on the wagon.
Rolling with the punches and adapting accordingly will keep you consistent in the long run.
Reason 2: Knowledge Changes
This goes for knowledge of self and learning about your pursuits.
Imagine that you’ve let yourself go over the years. You’ve settled into your career and family life.
Your old clothes are getting tighter, but you don’t think you look different in the mirror. You couldn’t have put weight on, you think.
Then you see a picture of yourself and quickly see why nothing is fitting anymore.
You’re in your 40s now, but you recall a workout routine in your 20s that you had lots of success on. It was trendy, and you knew many people who had success.
The workout has high-intensity cardio and heavy weight lifting 5–6 days a week.
You dive in headfirst on that first day back. The HIIT almost makes you throw up. You’re so shaken by the cardio that you can barely lift.
You decide to keep going, but after the third day, you can barely walk. So you quit.
Things have changed since you were in your 20s. Not only your biology but also knowledge about programs as you get older.
Your body doesn’t recover as well as it did in your 20s. You could also eat whatever you wanted in your 20s.
In your 40s, all of those bad choices are starting to accumulate. There are no shortcuts you can take outside of weight loss drugs.
You must be more mindful about your intensity and volume and how you recover. You can’t squat heavy three times a week anymore, especially after only getting four hours of sleep the night before.
There is much more knowledge out there for older folks getting into lifting. It considers where you start, past injuries, and effective weight and volume loads.
You must change and adapt based on current knowledge.
That also includes your knowledge as you move along. You’ll become more competent and learn more about what works for you and what doesn’t.
You then have to implement changes based on that.
Reason 3: Emotional Intelligence
You might wonder, “How do feelings and relationships affect my goals?”
You’ll be surprised.
Your relationship and understanding of yourself can help you succeed. You aren’t always going to feel like getting your workouts in. You aren’t always going to feel like eating for your fitness goals.
We’re humans, and emotions come and go. You have to be able to know if it’s a mental block or if there is a good reason to dial it back for a day or two.
Think of it as a trainer who knows when to push all the right buttons to get the most out of you.
They know when to be hard on you to get you working harder. They know when you need a pep talk to pick it up. They also know the perfect time for an active recovery day.
Humans aren’t robots who can repeatedly perform the same tasks and produce the proper results.
The human element causes variations based on mindset and emotions. If you’re struggling for a few days and get frustrated, is your mindset to give up or push through?
Do you quit or use it as an opportunity to improve?
That’s where your emotional intelligence is going to come in. It’s a secret weapon.
You’ll know exactly what you need and when you need it to get the most out of yourself.
You Still Have Objections
Nobody is saying consistency isn’t essential. Without it, you won’t succeed.
But repeatedly showing up and doing the same thing won’t lead to success. You’ll have to adapt to the circumstances of life and your personal growth and development of new knowledge.
Inconsistency doesn’t necessarily mean you are flying by the seat of your pants, either. You can be strategic in being inconsistent to keep the bigger picture falling into place.
Think of yourself as a Swiss army knife. You have many tools that can be used for just about any situation.
Swiss army knives are popular because of how adaptable they are to be used in many situations.
More Than Consistency
Personal growth is challenging. It’s okay to question whether consistency is enough.
Consistency is undoubtedly crucial, but it’s one piece of the puzzle. You must be adaptable and resilient.
You hold the keys to the engine that will propel you to the finish line.
Applaud yourself for your determination in committing to improving yourself. You’re seeking wisdom and insight you didn’t have.
This is the sign you were looking for that the universe is pushing you in the right direction.
