3 Powerful Words 2 Apologize

Summary

The article discusses the significance of sincere apologies, particularly in the context of Joe Rogan's use of the N-word and his subsequent apology, advocating for genuine accountability and learning from those impacted by racism and discrimination.

Abstract

The author of the article emphasizes the importance of avoiding hateful language and acknowledges the complex nature of words that can disparage individuals. The article takes a critical stance on the recent apology by Joe Rogan, an influential public figure, for his use of a racial slur. It suggests that Rogan's apology could have been more impactful if he had recognized his role as a role model and expressed a commitment to education and healing on the topic of racism. The author, an African American woman, expresses a personal aversion to the N-word and reflects on the hidden racism that can persist in private settings, affecting various aspects of life. The article concludes with a challenge to Rogan to engage in authentic dialogues with artists who have been offended by his content, to foster a deeper understanding of the impact of racism and discrimination.

Opinions

The author believes that the words 'hate' and 'stupid' should not be used as they are detrimental and disrespectful to the divine creation of individuals.
The author expresses that the use of the N-word is inappropriate and offensive, regardless of the speaker or context.
There is a critique of society's inability to completely eradicate racism and discrimination, despite public appearances of inclusivity.
The author is skeptical of the sincerity and effectiveness of Joe Rogan's initial apology for using the N-word.
A more meaningful apology from Rogan is suggested, one that includes accountability for his influence and a genuine commitment to learn and grow from the incident.
The author challenges Rogan to have open and authentic conversations with those who have been directly affected by his actions, suggesting this could lead to a transformative experience for him.
The article promotes an AI service, ZAI.chat, as a cost-effective alternative to ChatGPT Plus (GPT-4), indicating the author's endorsement of this service.

I Was Wrong!

Apology — an admission of error or discourtesy accompanied by an expression of regret https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/apolog

As our girls were growing up I told them that there were two words they should never say. The words have nothing to do with sex, sexual orientation, race, nationality, or ethnicity. The words were hate and stupid. I told them that they should not let anything or anyone impact them so much as to need to use the word “hate”.

As for the word stupid —We instilled in them that everyone is a creature made by the divine creator and that we will have similar and different experiences with all.

I subscribed to Spotify in January 2022- excited to create my own playlists and explore all that it had to offer. I also looked forward to hearing my own podcast on Spotify!

And then — there’s Joe Rogan apologizing for using the N-word. There are so many AWFUL words in our culture to disparage people. The use of the words can often be complicated.

For the record I am an African American Woman who cringes when I hear the N-Word no matter who says it or in what context!

Behind closed doors — families may perpetuate racism and discrimination while sometimes showing a different face in the halls of education, the government, or the corporate culture. This is foul and can have a person navigating and engaging with someone who thinks they are superior to them but plays a role. This role player may impact grades, policies, pay and promotions.

Nevertheless, we cannot legislate morality.

There is no need to remind the reader of the last several years of dog whistles and the creation of an environment of make America great was tinged with it is ok to hate!

Back to Mr. Rogan — I’ve listened to the apology. I could take the time to dissect and discuss.

“Whenever you’re in a situation where you have to say, I’m not racist, you f**ked up, and I clearly have f**ked up,” Rogan said.

Suffice it to say I wish Mr. Rogan would have said something like: I am a public figure and realize that whether I believe it or not, I am a role model to some and with that comes accountability. Therefore let me say to those who follow me and to those whom I offended — I was wrong and I am sorry.

He could also say I will now use my influence for education and healing. I realize that before I can influence learning and healing I must first gain a better understanding of this complex topic. I will gain a better understanding of racism through increased authentic and open dialogues with people who have been impacted by racism and discrimination.

A Challenge to Mr. Rogan I challenge Mr. Rogan to have an authentic and open dialogue with the artists who left Spotify because of his podcast content. Perhaps he can learn something life-changing from the conviction of these artists!