2 Books Must Read Before Your Marriage
I read these two books 6 months before my marriage. You can not even imagine how rich we become in our relationship.
Throughout my graduations and before the age of 30, I never read single books on relationships. But due to my inquisitive nature, whenever I entered in the new endeavour, I tried to read few books related to those endeavours.
We have just celebrated our 1st anniversary, but what I observe in our circumstances a lot of people professionally rich and sounds but their relationship with spouses is very poor. They never read single books and even our education systems never taught you how to talk with your opposite gender.
Always thought of women as aid or sex object, we think beyond that. Read these 2 books and take responsibility to make your relationship rich and powerful.
If you really want to fall in love with young women’s heart, you must read it.
Some Rich excerpt from the book:
- Men are from Mars Women are from Venus by John Gray
Authors John Gray worked as relationship counsellors, popular marriage and seminar leader. He tried to elaborate on the difference between men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.
How to read
The book contains 307 pages. If you are a newbie reader, read 10 pages every day. 5 Pages in the morning and 5 pages in the evening just before going to bed.
Apply every technique and principle with your loved ones and that experience you can write in the comment sections. At least you can write thanks notes to me.
Lessons:
- Practical and proven way to communicate with each other, men and women have different meanings and understandings over the same word.
- Women are hungry for appreciation and respects. Always give to her.
- Women want first satisfaction from the words. she always wants men can listen to her words, Men prefer the process them.
- Women want feelings, touch and care.
- Always write love letters to your loved ones. I follow these techniques from time to time; these are old techniques but one of the most classic ways to express your feelings.
- Give Hugs and tell her I love you two times a day. As a newbie couple hope you are doing this. But the maximum output of your relationship you continue till becoming the grandfather or mother.
- Make affection or cuddle without being sexual.
- Show affection and caring in public than others.
- As a couple, you can use these techniques and see the amazing output of your relationship.
All men and women have an equal need for love. When these needs are not fulfilled it is easy to have our feelings hurt, for which we blame our partner.
John Gray
- The five love language by Garry Chapman
Strengthening Millions of Relationships … One Language at a Time
The author has many years of experience with marriages counsellors then he discovered 5 emotional love languages. That every people on this planet can learn and understand.
This book is not written only for couples. As a human being, you must know what the 5 emotional love language is. Those 5 love language you use to act as a service. Unconsciously our primary language is love. But we forget to implement it in daily life.
How to read
The book has written in simple English you hardly require to open a dictionary. Every practical guide first implements and then read next chapters. 7 days enough to finish this book.
Love is a choice you make every day. _Gary Chapman
Lessons
- If you are a parent, Adults, unmarried, everybody must read this book. Adults can make a huge impact on their relationship.
- Everybody loves their child, but every child does not feel loves
- The book has given umpteen practical pieces of advice on how to talk with your children and feel secure.
- Use the 5 emotional love language to understand the mystery game of your children.
You can click on the above link and check your 5 primary love language
The below screenshot is my 5 primary love languages and it exactly matches my behaviour.
Love is the most powerful word in the world of the relationship.
The Secret to Love That Lasts.
Love can be expressed and received in all five languages. However, if you don’t speak a person’s primary love language, that person will not feel loved, even though you may be speaking the other four. Once you are speaking his or her primary love language fluently, then you can sprinkle in the other four and they will be like icing on the cake.
_Gary Chapman
Conclusion
There are many books on the relationship, but I found only these books, and its lesson helps me a lot. If you know of any other books, please write in the comment section. Thank You for reading!