150+ Love Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend (Deep, Funny, Sweet & More)

Are you looking for questions to ask your girlfriend?

Whether you’ve just started dating or have been together for a while, there will come a time when you want to know more about your girlfriend — her hopes, fears, and deepest secrets.

To help you get to know her better, we’ve created a list of 150+ questions to ask your girlfriend. These questions range from deep and personal to funny and light-hearted, so there’s something for everyone.

Use them to spark conversation and learn more about your girl, or simply use them as a fun way to spend an afternoon together. No matter what you do with them, these questions are sure to deepen your relationship.

You can also print this list and take it with you when you’re on a date. You’ll never run out of questions to ask.

1. What was your first impression of me?

2. Have I ever embarrassed you in some way? If so, how did I embarrass you and what did I do to embarrass you?

3. How do you feel right now, with me beside you?

4. What would you do if I cheated on you?

5. What are the most important things to you in a relationship?

6. Do you think about me when I’m not around?

7. What was the most memorable gift I ever gave you?

8. How will you describe the perfect partner for you?

9. Do you know that I love you?

10. If God gave you three wishes, what would they be?

11. Who is your ideal match?

12. What makes you attracted to me?

13. If I were a character from a movie, which one would I be and why?

14. When was the last time we spent time together just the two of us?

15. Would you still love me if I had a different job?

16. If you could change one thing about me, what would it be and why?

17. What’s your biggest pet peeve about me?

18. Who is your favorite actor/actress and why?

19. What is the best compliment that I ever gave you?

20. When was the last time we had a fight?

21. What’s your most annoying habit?

22. Are there any parts of my appearance that you don’t like?

23. Would you prefer it if I called you first or waited for you to call me?

24. Do you think we’ll be together in 5 years? 10 years?

25. What should I dress up as for Halloween this year?

26. Are there any situations that would make it hard for us to be together?

27. When was the last time you told me you loved me?

28. What is your biggest fear?

29. Do you think we’ll get married?

30. Did you see my social media profile(s) before we met in person? How did it (they) make you feel about me?

31. Are there any special things that I do that you enjoy?

32. What would you like to change about me?

33. Do you think I will make a good husband someday?

34. Are we on the same page in terms of our future plans?

35. After we’re married, will you let me keep my last name and hyphenate it with yours?

36. What would you do if I didn’t want kids?

37. Do you have a secret that you haven’t told me yet?

38. How long do you see us lasting together?

39. In what ways do you think we’re compatible?

40. Did my parents like or dislike me when they first met me?

41. What are the best and worst things about being in a relationship with me?

42. If your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend called you up out of the blue to get back together, would you?

43. How can I make you feel more loved?

44. Who do you go to when you have problems with me?

45. Are you in a healthy place emotionally? Physically? Financially? Spiritually?

46. How do I make time for us to have fun together when we’re both so busy with other things?

47. How much communication between you and me is too much communication?

48. Would you rather live in a house or an apartment?

49. Would you rather have a professional job or a steady side hustle to help make ends meet?

50. Do you think we are compatible with each other sexually?

51. How can I help you feel more comfortable sharing your feelings with me?

52. What’s the nicest thing anyone has ever done for you?

53. If we had a child, would you want to know what sex it was beforehand or wait and be surprised when we see it/he/she?

54. Do I encourage you and motivate you to do your best work?

55. How would you describe yourself in five words or less?

56. What’s one thing about me that bugs you the most?

57. If someone offered you $50 million to ruin my life, without getting caught, would you accept it? Why or why not?

58. Will we always be friends after we break up?

59. Do you want children someday, or would you rather not have them at all?

60. Is there anything about me that makes it difficult for you to love me as much as you want to?

61. What’s the one thing that worries you the most as a parent?

62. How many kids do you want to have with me?

63. What is your biggest fear for the future of our relationship?

64. How often do I make you feel special, loved, and appreciated?

65. Have you cheated on anyone in the past?

66. Are there any reasons why you might not be ready for a committed/exclusive relationship?

67. Is there anything you’re hiding from me that I should know about?

68. What is one of your biggest goals for the future?

69. Where do you see us living together in five years?

70. How close are you to your parents, siblings, friends, and family members?

71. Do you believe in God and/or a higher power?

72. How would your best friend or your family members describe me?

73. What are your top three deal-breakers when it comes to dating someone new?

74. Where is your favorite place to vacation together?

75. What hobbies do you enjoy doing when you’re not at work or school?

76. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

77. What are your dealbreakers? (For example, drinking excessively or lying.)

78. How often do you think about our future together?

79. How far is too far before I get concerned about where our relationship is headed?

80. Would you give up everything to be with me if I asked you to move away with me?

81. How often would you say that I make you feel loved and wanted?

82. What makes you the happiest in life?

83. Do you ever wish we were more than friends/just friends?

84. What does our relationship feel like to you?

85. How do we make each other better people?

86. How much space do you need to take a relationship from friendly to romantic?

87. Do I listen closely enough when you talk, or do I often zone out due to being distracted by other things?

88. Can I spend time with your friends, family members, and/or coworkers?

89. What’s the biggest difference between you and the rest of your friends?

90. How much personal space do you need when it comes to relationships?

91. If I told you I loved you, would it scare you away?

92. As an experiment, could you date someone who isn’t your type?

93. How often do you think about our future together?

94. If I took you on a romantic vacation, where would we go? What would we do there?

95. Would you be open to moving to the same city as me in the future if it meant getting an amazing job offer?

96. What is your favorite thing to do when you’re with me?

97. Do you often daydream about us being in love with each other forever?

98. Are there any negative life experiences that have influenced how you view or live life?

99. Would it bother you if I didn’t call you every single day?

100. What are your feelings about traveling together?

101. Would you consider being in an open relationship?

102. How would you feel if I told you I was in love with someone else?

103. What kind of things do you think about when you imagine us in the future together?

104. What is your biggest fear for our relationship right now?

105. Do you have any pets?

106. Would you consider yourself a good/bad communicator?

107. What makes me unique from all your other friends and past significant others?

108. What is your favorite thing about yourself?

109. How would it make you feel if I said that I used to want to date other people while we were together?

110. How long would you wait before asking me out or making a move?

111. What’s the best way for me to make you feel loved and appreciated?

112. Do you get irritated when I talk about my exes?

113. What are your top three life priorities right now?

114. Do you think that you’re better at being single or in a relationship?

115. How much can one person make a difference in your life? 116. Are there any parts of me that you don’t like and wish I would change?

116. Do you remember our last conversation?

117. What is the most important physical feature to you, when it comes to finding a potential partner?

118. When you picture our future together, what do you see happening in 10 years?

119. What are your preferred ways to get attention from the people you’re interested in spending time with romantically?

120. Would you say your friends are important to you?

121. How do I make you feel special?

122. What makes our relationship fun and exciting for you?

123. Do you believe in soulmates or destiny?

124. What is the best way for me to initiate plans with you?

125. If I was going away, what could I do to ensure that you would miss me while I was gone?

126. How much time apart can you tolerate before it bothers you?

127. Do you like spending time with my parents or family members?

128. Would you be comfortable with me asking to split the check on our next date?

129. Do you typically go out of town much during the holidays, or stay home?

130. How do you feel about public displays of affection?

131. Does your family have any expectations for who you should marry or are you expected to not get married?

132. Do you like sharing your personal space with people?

133. How long should the perfect date last?

134. How often do you try new things and explore new experiences, ideas, and places?

135. Why did we drift apart after we initially got together?

136. What are your feelings about drinking alcohol?

137. Do you prefer to be friends with the person you’re dating, or would you rather just have a romantic relationship?

138. What is your definition of love?

139. What’s your favorite thing to do on a first date?

140. What are some things that you wish I knew about you?

141. If we were in a fight, what is the best way for me to win back your trust and forgiveness?

142. What do you think makes me attractive?

143. Would you rather date someone who has different opinions and interests than yours or someone similar with whom you share many common interests?

144. How would you feel if our roles were reversed and I was disinterested in sex?

145. Are you afraid of commitment or just not wanting to be tied down with someone else yet?

146. Are there certain things that make you suspicious of a person’s intentions toward you?

147. What would our last words to each other be if we were on our deathbeds?

148. Do I act like your mother?

149. What is the biggest challenge that we are facing right now in our relationship?

150. How do I make time for you when I’m so busy with work and school?

151. What are the most important qualities someone needs to have in order for you to love them?

152. If our dog/cat/bird died, how upset would you be?

153. What are the things that really bother you about our relationship?

154. What is your definition of cheating (emotional and/or physical)?

155. What do you think about me?

156. How often do you think about sex with me, in general?

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