12 Reasons Not to Ejaculate: Live a Life Full of Masculine Energy
Know your “why” to practice non-ejaculation.
“Our visions are the world we imagine, the tangible results of what the world would look like if we spent every day in pursuit of our WHY.”
— Simon Sinek
The problem when attempting to master a practice is not having a big enough why. Finding the why to a problem is what provides you with the motivation to stick to your task.
There are 12 ‘whys’ as to not ejaculate. Understanding these powerful reasons provide you with motivation to launch or maintain your non ejaculation practice.
When the why is not big enough you will easily succumb to ejaculating in the heat of the moment.
Not committing to your ejaculation practice will affect all goals in your life. You will be that man who is unable to assert yourself with other people. Women will not trust you. Men will walk all over the top of you. You will be a man who doesn’t commit to following your goals as you only react to the world.
Non-ejaculation enables you to contain your masculine energy within yourself. Maintaining and holding this masculine energy is what you use to present yourself to the world.
The following 12 knowledge bites will provide you will a big enough ‘why’ to commit to a non-ejaculation practice. Your transformation will take place when you are powerful.
#1. Depletion of energy
While you may seek out the 10–15 seconds of pleasure that comes from ejaculation. The cost is immense. This is due to a huge loss in energy when you do ejaculate. You know yourself after you ejaculate you immediately feel tired. This is due to the loss of energy and the hormones that are released at the time as well.
#2. Short unsatisfying sex
Typically, the average time it takes a man to ejaculate during sex is 5 to 7 minutes. In such a short amount of time sex is not very satisfying. The real pleasure is in the act itself, not the quick ending.
#3. Partner left unsatisfied
If you are ejaculating too fast your partner can be left feeling frustrated. This can then bleed out into other areas of your relationship.
#4. Loss of erection
Immediately after ejaculating, you lose your erection and sex comes to an abrupt end.
#5. Desire to have sex
Upon ejaculating you lose your appetite for sex. You are more likely to want to sleep than go on for round 2!
#6. Goal orientated sex
Your focus is to get as quickly as possible to the finish line. This makes the act of sex mechanical and lifeless.
#7. Disappointment
Some of you report that you become disappointed with ejaculating so fast. This is due to being left feeling unsatisfied from ejaculating so fast and thoughts of what was the point.
#8. Loss of connection
During sex, you can feel intimately connected to your partner. However, if you are ejaculating quickly, you have the experience of that connection being lost.
#9. Loss of creative spark and masculine energy
Take note of when you repeat ejaculate how you may be feeling powerless. Your drive to live a life with purpose is severely decreased.
“Fortunate, indeed, is the person who has discovered how to give sex emotion an outlet through some form of creative effort, for he has, by that discovery, lifted himself to the status of a genius.”
— Napoleon Hill, Chapter 11 Think and Grow Rich
#10. Control over your life and emotions
When you are unable to regulate and manage your sexual energy that you ejaculate too fast it’s a sign that you cannot say no. When you are a powerful man you can make decisions that serve your best interests in the long term. Your inability to practice restraint and succumbing to instant gratification inhibits holding and building up your masculine energy.
“Self-control is strength. Calmness is mastery. You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else. Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life. Don’t allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.”
— Morgan Freeman
#11. Spirituality and Religions
Spiritual precepts and various religions have viewed ejaculation to inhibit your spiritual development. The reasons being your time is better applied to carrying out spiritual practices, the loss of energy affects carrying out higher duties, and thoughts directed to God are more beneficial than lustful thoughts chasing ejaculation.
#12. Trust in a relationship
Women test men in various ways to see if they can be trusted. Your woman wants a man that can meet her sexually and emotionally. When she knows she can deplete you so easily her trust in you is lost. She will now see you as a weak man that can be easily manipulated.
She knows she can deplete him, weaken him, empty him of life force. She has won. When a man ejaculates easily, he creates ongoing distrust in his women
— David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man
You do not have to not ever ejaculate. If you choose to ejaculate there needs to be intelligent regulation of when you do and don’t ejaculate. Be aware of all the potential negative consequences that rear their ugly head when you do.
That you do now know the problems associated with ejaculating you have a very powerful ‘why’. Being clear on why practicing non-ejaculation is the decision for prompting life-changing transformation.
