avatarLukas Schwekendiek

Summary

This article outlines ten enriching experiences that individuals should aim to have in their lifetimes, ranging from personal growth and connection to adventure and self-investment.

Abstract

The article "10 Things You Should Experience In Your Life" emphasizes the importance of personal experiences that contribute to one's growth, happiness, and understanding of the world. It suggests establishing a comfort zone outside of work and home, such as a favorite restaurant, and forming meaningful connections with the people there. The article encourages learning from the life stories of the elderly, facing personal fears head-on, and pushing one's limits by working for 24 hours straight. It advocates for a digital detox to break old habits and for investing in oneself by spending money on self-improvement. The author promotes spontaneous adventure without a set plan, making a significant impact on a stranger's life, supporting small street vendors, and creating a detailed plan to achieve one's dreams. These experiences are presented as valuable investments in personal development and fulfillment.

Opinions

  • The author believes that small acts of community involvement, like knowing staff at a favorite restaurant, can significantly enhance one's sense of comfort and belonging.
  • Engaging with the stories of the elderly is valued as a way to gain perspective and wisdom, as well as to make them feel valued.
  • Overcoming fears is seen as a powerful way to build personal strength and resilience.
  • Working through the night demonstrates the potential to overcome physical and mental barriers through sheer willpower.
  • A period without electronics is recommended to break away from routine and foster a deeper connection with oneself and the physical world.
  • Investing in self-improvement, such as attending seminars or building a personal library, is considered one of the best investments a person can make.
  • Spontaneous travel is encouraged as a true adventure that can lead to unexpected and enriching experiences.
  • The article emphasizes the importance of genuine kindness and assistance to strangers, suggesting that such acts can make a profound difference in their lives.
  • Supporting small street vendors is seen not only as a way to brighten their day but also as a step towards changing the world through kindness.
  • The author advises that detailing a plan to achieve one's dreams can make them feel more attainable and bring them within closer reach.

10 Things You Should Experience In Your Life

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1. Establish a Favorite Restaurant and learning everyone’s names….

It’s the little things that often go a long way and having some place outside your work and home you can feel comfortable in is one of those little things.

Get involved a little bit with the people around you.

2. Indulge in someone else’s story.

The best place to do this is a Retirement home. Find someone who has lived far longer and more than you have and indulge them in their life story.

Ask them the tough questions, about their dreams, regrets, the advice they have to give and hear them out fully. Not only does this make them feel valuable but it will also give you a perspective that could change everything.

3. Overcome a Fear.

If you are afraid of heights go bungee-jumping, if you are afraid of snakes ask a snake owner if you can hold theirs and if you are afraid of rejection play the “No” game.

Go into a situation with the sole intention of breaking your fear and overcoming it.

4. Work 24 hours straight.

Pick a Saturday or a Friday (just a day where you have nothing to do the next day) and work through the night. If you do not have anything to work on that is work related then work on yourself.

The point to this is that you prove to yourself that you can overcome such feelings as tiredness, boredom or exhaustion through willpower. It’s an amazing experience in personal power.

5. Spend A Week without any Electronics.

If you cannot do a week anytime soon at least spend 24 hours without any electronics.

Go outside, read a book, and break some of those old habits you got sucked into.

6. Spend a slightly uncomfortable amount of Money on You.

Not on your comfort or quality of life but in yourself as a person. Go to a big Seminar, get yourself a small Self-improvement library or hire a coach to get you to be more of the person you want to become.

The best investments you can make are always in yourself, because it’s an investment that will last a life time; literally.

7. Go on a REAL Adventure.

Do not make a plan to go anywhere and simply go. See what happens!

Get the first flight, bus or train out of where you currently are, no matter where it goes, and take a brave step to just explore.

8. Really help a Stranger.

Don’t just throw a nice amount of money their way. Really sit down with them and care about them. Make a difference in their life!

Talk to them, get lunch with them, or even help them find a job. Whatever you can do that really invests in them and shows them that somebody cares. Sometimes that’s all we need.

9. Purchase everything from a small street vendor.

The smile you put on their face will be priceless, especially if they look like they need it.

“How do we change the world? One random act of kindness at a time.” — Morgan Freeman

10. Make a To-Do List to achieve your Dream.

Iron out the details for once. What would it truly take for you to achieve your dream?

The more detailed this plan is the more real it gets and you’ll see that you are far closer to your dream than you thought.

Self Improvement
Life
Life Lessons
Dreams
Experience
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