10 Things You May Not Know About Me
I will tell you my story

I have been tagged by Vidya Sury, Collecting Smiles who will not listen to a ‘no’ or an answer as I will try to do it. She wants me to tell her and everyone else 10 things that people may not know about me. So here I go.
I think everyone knows that I am a Professor and my specialization is finance but I have varied interests in life. Whatever I write is what I have experienced in my life at home or in my career. I am a nature lover, I walk every day and also do yoga and little affirmations and small meditation mantras and the best thing are that I am very positive and eternally happy. I have a lot of challenges in my life but I overcome them with willpower and calmness.
I believe in uplifting the poor, developing women to be independent thinkers and have good sound careers, working for sustainable development in the country, and promoting love and peace.
My motto is Each Day Is Special — Live, Love, Laugh, and spread love and happiness
Now let me narrate some things about me that you may not know.
#1. My family lives on different continents
I have three sons who have flown from their nests and decided to move to other continents with their families and are happy citizens of other countries.
My eldest son lives in Australia and is an Australian Citizen. He has a daughter. She is half Indian and half Australian and her name is Isla. My middle son came back from the USA as he and his wife wanted to settle in India. He gave back his Green Card and rejected his application for citizenship coming back to his origin. They have two daughters Khushi and Trisha, and a cat and a dog as pets. My third son is a citizen of the USA. The couple is blessed with two sons Viraaj and Samraaj.
As a full family, we have never been together. Some family member is always missing. Now that we are four units, we meet as two units, three units but never as four units. We just cannot have a family picture together.
I have five grandkids the eldest Khushi will be 13 this year and the youngest Samraaj will be 7 on May 1st. He has been counting his birthday from Ist January 2022.
I have a picture to show with our three sons.

#2. My husband and I are opposites
I love to socialize and meet people. I am on the go, happy-go-lucky as I enjoy my life. He never wants to go out. He likes to spend time by himself at home. People say he is from the North pole and I am from the South Pole.
I love to walk but he does not like walking. I love to travel but he does not enjoy traveling.
He is humorous and has small jokes up his sleeve and I can never do that. He relates to some people who really enjoy his company.
We have spent 50 years of our life together. This is our Golden Anniversary Year.
#3. Dress to the occasion
I enjoy dressing for the occasion. I love to wear well-designed outfits and accessories and match everything when I go out. Often people ask me whether I bought the accessories first or the clothes. I enjoy designing clothes and jewelry. I did clothes designing in my own boutique but became so involved in academic work that I closed down because both could not go on side by side.
#4. My home as a kid
I lived in a home with a lot of love from my parents. The house was filled with flowers as my mother was so good at gardening. I was a perfect tomboy and loved to climb trees.
I am with my friend in the pictures below doing all sorts of naughty things. You would always find me perched upon a tree. I would do all my homework there. My mother would make beautiful frocks with hand embroidery and I would spoil them all dirtying them or tearing them and she would keep on sowing them.


#5 Butterflies in my stomach
When I used to go to a class on the first day I would have butterflies in my tummy and wonder if I could reach the end of the class. I wondered whether i could teach and what the students would think of me. This went on for 20 years but after that, I was cured of the silly phobia.
I would have the same kind of butterflies when I went on stage and speak but then later on I would speak extempore. I had to be on stage all the time as Head of the International Management Department and I never carried a paper with me. I needed a few points and I was ready. What a change from the olden days.

#6. Miss India contest
In my college days, I contested the Miss India contest and was a runner-up of Miss Hyderabad amidst a lot of cheering from my classmates and friends. I have a picture to show where I am standing next to the winner waiting to be crowned and given a sash, looking dazed and silly.

#7. College fun
I participated in a lot of debates, plays, dance, and other programs and functions held in the college. When I went on stage the boys and girls would call me a Bollywood actress Mala Sinha the then famous actress. Later they discarded that and called me Babita when this new actress came in as a Bollywood role.
#8. Academics
My father was very keen that I do a course other women did not do at that time. I did business studies. There were only 4 girls and 60 boys in my class in undergraduate and in my M.com class I was the only girl student with three sections of boys.
I was the first woman to do her Ph.D. in Finance from the Commerce Department of Delhi University, India.
I started my career as an assistant accountant and then went on in the higher education field by joining as a lecturer at Jesus and Mary College. I started the department and now there are women galore in the business field. I was the Head of the department and then moved on to post-graduate teaching and was again the Head of the Department of International management
I have been an entrepreneur having a fashion boutique as well.
#9. Cooking, embroidery, and other things
My mother wanted me to be proficient in housekeeping. She was too good. I do not think I could ever be like her but I did learn a lot of things.
I did learn to cook and embroider but not to sew making clothes. I can make minor adjustments and sew buttons and hooks but was not interested in making a whole garment. Instead, I had a talent for designing clothes and keeping a beautiful well designed home.
I am going to show you a sample of my embroidery. I did find a picture. I did a lot of cross stitch. You won’t believe me I learned other things like playing the sitar and had the opportunity of sitting on the stage in the background of the world-famous sitar player Ravi Shankar because my teacher was his disciple. I learned to paint but ever since I got married both the things I just left.
I also played hockey, badminton and throwball, and netball but now I don’t play these games at all.

#10. I love traveling
Travel has taught me a lot. First I have learned to survive alone because I traveled alone so many times on assignments such as conferences as keynote speaker, chairperson, paper presenter, panelist, and teaching assignments. It took me to many countries abroad such as the USA, Canada, Germany, Sweden, Singapore, and Bangkok. I have also traveled to Australia, Austria France, the UK, Hungary, Finland, Hongkong, and Pakistan.
I have traveled to many places in India also both on assignments and personally.
I do not enjoy traveling alone even though I have to because when there are two people together you can see things from the other person’s viewpoint also. You can chat and do site seeing together.
I have traveled alone and also with friends and family. Each of these trips has taught me many life lessons.
I have now come to an end of the 10things. I have read many beautiful posts from others. I have seen so many people tagged.
5 names I did not see I am tagging them. Maybe they will enjoy writing. Dr. Fatima Imam, Noorain Ali, Josh Balerite Acol, Josephine Crispin Brajendra Kumar.
Please do read Vidya Sury, Collecting Smiles who has linked quite a few articles by people who have written about their 10 things
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