#1 WORST Piece Of Advice That You Need To Destroy And Do These 9 To Become Wildly Successful
#9 Is Everything
Have you ever been told, “Be patient, take your time, you have a vibrant and long life ahead of you” or “Enjoy your time, live in the moment, you are too young to worry about starting a business, chasing goals”?
To all the parents out there who ask: How do I position my kids to lead them in achieving success? And to all of you, young people who don’t want to settle for being average, this is for you.
You’ll have some people whom you love, respect, and honor tell you the opposite of everything that can transform your life. They’ll say to you, “You are too young to start, enjoy your teens have some patience, will you? I am here to tell you: You are NEVER TOO YOUNG to start.
Your time is NOW. Your time has been ticking since you were born. All of us have limited time; there are no guarantees how long this gift of life you have heck, look at how many young people have passed away that had ambitions, dreams, and goals.
I am not here to discourage you from thinking you have a short life span, but the real truth is no one knows how much TIME they got.
When these people come to you and give you one of the WORST advice that you need to chill, and you should be PATIENT because you are young and got time-confidently say, “I got no guarantees that I’ll make it to the next hour so thank you; I’ll chase my dreams.”
If you got the desire to win, your hustle on fire, age should never be an obstacle to prevent you from going forward. In this age and time, there hasn’t been a time near-perfection to fly with the dreams you see yourself to execute because of the opportunities we have today is MASSIVE.
I Don’t care if you are 10, 12, 82, age is irrelevant. The sooner you make progress, the sooner you start to build your mindset, skills, or whatever that moves the needle for you, the sooner you’ll get to taste and enjoy the fruits of your hard work.
Some of your closest people have good intentions, but sometimes good intentions coming from them is not enough to propel you to be where you want to be.
They’ll say things like: “you already have enough stuff going for you. I don’t want to put pressure on you; you are too young.” But, little pressure is good; it keeps you to get that darn thing done.
Why can’t you start young? Mark Cuban, Kylie Jenner, Bill Gates, Jay-Z — all started YOUNG.
By the way, the list of billionaires and millionaires gets younger every year because of the low-barrier entry of opportunities.
So please parents never hold your children back and to all of you who think it’s too late, remember age is nothing but a number
Here are the nine secret formulas to become successful beyond your wildest dreams:
1) Study the Great Communicators
Read books on persuasion, public speaking, improving your communications and study those who already have the traits you want to master by modeling them, and modifying it to your style.
2) Set Goals Early
Begin to write your goals down every single day. It sounds tedious, but it works like a miracle. Stay committed and have someone hold you accountable for the goals you’ve written down. There was a case study done at Dominican University, proving how goal writing affects achieving your goals.
3) Feed On Personal Development
Feed your brain with good thoughts and positive visualization. Learn about influence. Create the future you in your mind before you get there. One of my absolute favorite books to read on this matter is: Becoming Supernatural: How Common People Are Doing the Uncommon by Dr. Joe Dispenza.
4) Be A Leader
Detach yourself from the packs of bad influence. Not all of your friends are going to be the cause of your success; some can lead you to destruction, and if you are not careful whom you invite to your circle, you’ll soon pick up their behaviors.
Be an example of greatness. Lead with integrity.
5) Build Yourself-Confidence
Self-confidence is the process of keeping the promises that you make to yourself and fulfilling your words no matter the circumstances. Also, work on your self-worth by believing that you deserve more and that you are worth it for what you are after.
6)Take Massive Action
Action speaks louder. Most of us are drowning in consumption and paralyzed by putting into action the gems we’ve learned through our mentors. It’s time that you pause in between lessons and apply what you learn into massive action every day.
Results come not from consumption, but through the ACTIONS you take.
7) Dream Big
Close your eyes. Put good use to the power of your imagination and see the big picture and fall in love with the life you want. Get excited, let the fire burn inside you to give you the direction you want to lead. The truth is that all the people who have ever accomplished anything significant had started with a thought.
8) Network Equals Networth
“Your Network is your Net Worth” by Porter Gale is a book about finding your true self, learning how to extend your social reach into new places, and use new media to your social advantage.
The core premise of this book is that each person has a set of great value on many fronts, from the intimate to the professional; what is more, each of these relationships can have a profound trajectory.
9) Have Unbreakable Faith
While things may not fall in place easily or immediately have faith that God controls the wheel. He’s caring, loving, and will have you under His care when you fall. He’s always in your favor to give you whatever you are chasing in its perfect timing. Trust His wisdom. Know with conviction things happen for you, not to you.
Stay blessed. Make a difference.
