Summary

The author describes overcoming indecisiveness by using available information and trusting their gut after being inspired by a quote that emphasized the unknowable nature of decision outcomes.

Abstract

The article recounts the author's personal struggle with indecisiveness, particularly in the face of life's many choices and their potential impacts. The turning point came when the author encountered a quote on social media suggesting that one can only assume the outcomes of decisions, not truly know them. This insight led the author to rely on present information and intuition to make choices without obsessing over potential results. The author reflects on a specific instance where this approach resulted in a satisfying decision to stay home instead of returning to university, reinforcing the idea that trusting one's gut can lead to positive outcomes, even if the future remains uncertain.

Opinions

The author expresses a strong personal aversion to decision-making, regardless of the decision's magnitude.
There is a belief that adult life necessitates numerous choices, which can be overwhelming due to their long-term consequences.
The author views the encountered quote as a profound message from the universe, directly influencing their decision-making process.
The article suggests that worrying about decision outcomes can lead to indecision and that it is more productive to focus on the information at hand.
Trusting one's gut is presented as a valuable strategy, with the author emphasizing that this approach has worked well for them.
The author acknowledges that not all decisions will have the desired outcome, but this is part of life's learning process.
The author encourages readers to seek counsel from within and from trusted individuals when making decisions.

1 Simple Quote That Changed the Way I Make Decisions

How an unexpected message guided me in learning to be less indecisive.

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I am an incredibly indecisive person.

I hate making even the smallest decision.

What to eat for dinner? Where to go to meet a friend? You name it. I can’t decide on it.

I realized that I really needed to master this.

In adult life, you have to make lots of choices. And each will impact your life in one way or another.

But that is why I think I get overwhelmed. I don’t know how each decision will end up.

What if I make the wrong one?

A light bulb moment

I was stuck making a decision one day.

Do I stay at home for another week or go back to university? (That was the gist of it anyway, there were many factors at play as to why I had these two choices).

I was scrolling through Instagram, and an account I followed had reposted a quote and it read;

The screenshot is taken from Instagram. Quote from @therapyforwomen on Twitter.

That was a direct message from the universe. I was sure of it. It made so much sense.

I was so worried about what the outcome of each would be when I would never actually be able to know. Only assume.

I didn’t need to get bogged down with the outcome. That was only making me go around in circles.

I had the information right now that I could recall helping me come to a decision.

How it worked out for me

I listened to this guidance, and I called on the information that I had. I stayed home for those few extra days.

And it felt like a good decision. It worked out well.

Granted, I never would have known what the outcome would have been had I decided to go back. But I trusted my gut, and it turned out A-ok.

I wish we could just see the outcome of each decision. It would make the whole thing so much easier.

But we can’t. And so, all we can do is lean on our gut and the information that we have at our immediate disposal.

Sometimes things don’t necessarily turn out the way we want, but that’s life.

The universe is teaching us a lesson with every choice we make. Sometimes things happen a little differently than how you expected them to.

So meditate on it, talk to trusted friends or family and trust your gut.

Choices are just unexpected lessons.

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