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eing.</p><p id="bc8d">Finding a life purpose is the modern-day excuse of the lazy. You already know your purpose in life.</p><h1 id="17da">I run after money.</h1><p id="3786">People might hate me for this but I don’t have to care.</p><p id="fa04">Money reduces worries. Money avoids unnecessary struggles. Money buys better feelings that matter more. Money can save someone’s breath from collapsing. Money unlocks freedom.</p><p id="64d1">Freedom to not have to care about spending $2 more for someone’s birthday gift you love. Freedom of not having to worry about medical bills of a family emergency. Freedom to have the confidence to be by your parent’s side when they are in hospital and you don’t yet know why because they never visited the doctor for a checkup.</p><h1 id="c69b">If Reciprocity Is Real, What’s for Your Loved Ones?</h1><p id="3290">You don’t feel or realize this.</p><p id="d971">Imagine laying down straight on the road and 93 buildings falling to your body at a high speed altogether. That’s the pain your mother had to go through to bring you to earth.</p><p id="f6ef">A shock that’s fun and feels good is called orgasm. A shock that’s a pain but feels great is called mother’s love for you you can’t ever fathom.</p><p id="81d6">Your dad and mom suffer throughout their life. They lose their youth, time, passion, dreams— everything for you. In the end, they’ll die and you won’t care. Or when they’re old, you’ll push them to some old-age home and your face to them gets forever rare.</p><p id="e90f">What do your parents expect and get for giving their everything away for you? Think about it.</p><h1 id="78c3">Be the reason for their “real” smile.</h1><p id="a273">A husband and wife smile the least after becoming parents. There, I said it.</p><p id="cb02">Your parents are likely the same. And you know it. You might not know why. Because your smile becomes their smile.</p><p id="e322">How about this? Do whatever you d

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o so you be the reason for your parent’s smile. So you are the reason for their first “real” smile in front of you. So you are the reason for them smiling after a long time. They lost everything for you to you raising you, anyway.</p><h1 id="b0a7">This Is the Worst However</h1><p id="81c1">I always run so much after money and success that I spend the least time with family, even though I am blessed I can. That’s the worst tragedy of my life.</p><p id="50f7">Choose family over money. Then, earn money for the family.</p><h1 id="0039">The First True Purpose of Life</h1><p id="f3b6">Your parents can die anytime without notice. Make them proud of giving you birth at least once.</p><p id="c5a9">All they wanted to do is live their life with you through you because they lost everything for you.</p><p id="da84">Your parents are the VIP person in your life. Not having a life purpose is an excuse. Change it with a VIP excuse: my family is my greatest purpose.</p><p id="ec88">You can choose to stop caring about unnecessary people-pleasing and worry about family-happiness-making.</p><p id="d0be">You don’t need people who make you feel suck in your life, anyway. Your parents are your most precious NFT.</p><p id="6edc">You are doing what you are doing to make them work less. You aren’t as selfish as people say you are.</p><blockquote id="b8bd"><p>I’m not smart. Life makes me smart sometimes. I share the lessons with a personal story in less than 100 words for You.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="a9b6"><p>I don’t know when you’ll need me the most so I’ll post whenever I can best. Yes, I collect your email address because I want You.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="df1b"><p>For subscription: <a href="https://shajedulkarim.substack.com/">You</a> Newsletter. Always active. Always free. Always for You. <a href="https://shajedulkarim.substack.com/welcome">Here you go</a>.</p></blockquote></article></body>

一場「正規不正式」的歐霸決賽

文:駐巴庫室友中堅賓

相隔十三年,阿仙奴終於再次打入歐洲盃賽決賽,作為多年阿迷,深知呢啲機會好難得,今次唔去,真係唔知要再等幾多年,一股莫名的衝動促成左今次歐霸決賽之旅。

大家首先會問:乜你買到飛咩?拜歐洲足協一個任性嘅決定,揀左巴庫做主辦城市,巴庫話就話叫做歐洲城市,但實則地理位置更加靠近伊朗同中亞。

以往歐戰決賽,球場選址都會係响傳統意義上嘅歐洲地區,就算以前試過响基輔、莫斯科、以至伊斯坦堡呢啲稍稍偏遠地方舉行(以西歐的角度來看),

起碼都有直航。

由於交通方便,本土球迷基本就已經搶哂啲飛,海外球迷唔洗番一萬幾千,都唔洗諗入到場。但今次選址巴庫,聽講英國過去最少要1000鎊,而且唔係直航,加上場波周中踢,兩邊球會各自分到區區6000張飛,本土球迷真係想去都要諗諗先,結果?波飛銷情好慘淡,更加造就咗一街都係波飛嘅情況,就係咁,我毫無難度買到決賽門票。

上海登機

我過巴庫嘅方法有啲迂迴,先去上海,再到莫斯科,仲去咗兩個球場。

一個係莫斯科戴拿模,一個係中央陸軍!

最後先到阿塞拜疆,你見我上星期六晚出發就知。點都好,經過一日半後,我終於到咗。原本我滿心期待會有好熾熱嘅氣氛...

終於到機場,大大個奧斯爾。

但我錯了。

到埗後,暫時其實都唔係好感受到有咩大戰嘅緊張氣氛,市內舖天蓋地嘅宣傳當然有,但咁唔代表係氣氛好,

咁佈置就少不了
仲可以同歐霸盃影相!

因為最重要嘅關鍵係球迷,

筆者呢兩日响市內主要景點同UEFA 主辦嘅球迷派對徘徊,見到兩隊都有唔小球迷蒲頭,問佢地來自邊度,主要係中東、南亞、俄羅斯人,咁香港同中國球迷都有唔少,而真正嘅英國本土球迷,要去到尋晚路過一間酒吧,先撞得到,佢地隊住啤唱住打氣歌,先令我感受到丁屎嘅大戰味。

終於見到英國阿迷,例牌啦霸住間酒吧唱打氣歌

咁樣嘅氣氛,令我心生疑問:呢場係正式嘅歐洲正規比賽嗎?

我覺得似黎睇一場海外季前熱身賽,多過一場正式的歐洲盃賽決賽囉。

全城嘉年華嘅味道好重,雙方球迷無話劍拔弩張,反而大家都係嘻嘻哈哈咁樣,搞到我個人都輕鬆哂

完全唔記得今場輸左,唔止無盃捧,仲會無埋歐聯資格。

阿車兩隊全球Fans 眾多,今場波無太多本土球迷出席,都完全唔擔心無捧場客,不過筆者認為英國本土球迷先係最熟悉球會文化,佢地根本就係球會嘅根,我地呢啲海外球迷,無論捧幾多年都好,永遠都吸收唔哂佢地一直承接落去嘅文化同傳統,看似自己人,但站在本土球迷當中,始終都會有一點點隔閡。當歐霸都講全球化,有啲本土文化總係會缺失咗。

我諗,今場隨時可能係最少歐洲人親身睇嘅歐洲決賽。

所以今次响本土球迷大量(被逼)缺席情況下,氣氛又點會炒得熱?最多只係似嘉年華,而唔係兩隊英國同市球會競逐歐洲錦標的大戰味道。

中東人為主的車迷

我深信兩隊球員都已經磨拳擦掌,我唔會質疑佢地嘅爭勝心態,氣氛差嘅話,就不如由阿仙奴球員捧走歐霸盃,炒熱番個氣氛啦!

阿迷已經準備好啦!仲有法蘭克福的球迷,相信係因為抽到波飛…

決賽後,希望用興奮嘅心情再同大家分享過。

今晚,決賽見!

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